Why do men lie about who they like and sleep with who they say they hate?

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Anonymous wrote:People especially some men will tell the current lady in their life whatever they think she wants to hear, in order to have regular sex with them, for some this means swearing up and down that's she's his exact type and has never been attracted to anything different.


ALso, people don't like to believe this, but for some men personality plays a lot into who they end up with. Hot but mean gets old. Not coventianally attractive, but fun to be around, and little to no drama, can win.

and sometimes the man is dysfunctional enough to CRAVE the drama and batsh*tness.

I agree they will tell a woman anything...even "I love you" to keep the free sex, no strings sex coming.

If no commitment has been made several years in...you know you are being used.

It's not about being used or deceived, just as it pertains to OP's question some men will say anything to have sex, and it may or may not be reflective of their true desires.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am one of the (clearly multiple) posters who remember your posts from recent weeks. I posted in website feedback and apologized above for calling you a troll. I'm not 100% sure I'm wrong about that but I will take Jeff's word on it.

For the record, I'm not obsessed with you or trying to be mean to you. I enjoy this forum and read it regularly. I posted in that previous thread trying to help and gave genuine advice about letting it go. I am not a troll and put a lot of thought into my posts. I try to be a positive impact on DCUM not a negative one and it is frustrating when I put time and energy into trying to give a poster genuine and well meaning advice only to find out it was a troll/totally fake.

So some people will call me a DCUM hall monitor but I just really dislike trolls in the relationship forums wasting people's time. So IMO it is you who is the bad guy here. Repeatedly calling people who tried to give you real advice before (and therefore remember your post because we cared at the time) crazy obsessed lunatics.

Damn whose wasting whose time? Isn't a troll someone who lies about to cause controversy? I suggest taking the mod's advice and get out of this thread if you're into causing drama and fighting. Save the drama for yourself. Bye!

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Anonymous wrote:Ok glad I'm not the only one having deja vu.

OP, as before please let it go. Yes break ups suck. Yes being cheated on sucks, but count yourself lucky, go be with someone who wants to be with you. Don't let this ex and is new girlfriend take up anymore space in your head.

Okay mean girl #3 or #2?

Sorry but the only way you know if its the same poster is thru the IP otherwise you're just guessing and being spiteful for no reason.

Thank you but I am happy. However I am concerned about how much time you spend on here that you memorize posts you say were deleted by the mods. You must spend a lot of time online getting involved with people's drama and lives?

The same exact threads, word for word was posted not that long ago, the odds of that being someone else are not very high. You have made multiple threads about this situation. Break ups suck. Obsessing over them only hurts you. Get help.

You are obsessed with some dcum woman's breakup story. I didn't mention a breakup, ex, or new girlfriend anywhere in my main post. I mentioned fat people among other people and you got annoyed. You call vs models anorexic yet that is what a beautiful curvy woman looks like without cankles and with a defined waist.

I suggest you take your own advice and get help, get some sun, and stop obsessing and fighting like mad over who you think is a troll. Make friends, love life, and get off the internet?

NP. Op is losing it. You didn’t have to mention breakup, we know that is the same OP. I am sorry that you are heartbroken, but obsessing over your ex and stacking the new girlfriend on Social media won’t help you. I suggest you block both of them from social media so they don’t exist in your life anymore. Hope you get help soon.

I know it's YOU crazy lady who can't stay out of this thread. Where did I, the OP, post this imaginary heartbreak story in my post? You imagining things now? I HOPE YOU GET HELP SOON!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Ok glad I'm not the only one having deja vu.

OP, as before please let it go. Yes break ups suck. Yes being cheated on sucks, but count yourself lucky, go be with someone who wants to be with you. Don't let this ex and is new girlfriend take up anymore space in your head.

Okay mean girl #3 or #2?

Sorry but the only way you know if its the same poster is thru the IP otherwise you're just guessing and being spiteful for no reason.

Thank you but I am happy. However I am concerned about how much time you spend on here that you memorize posts you say were deleted by the mods. You must spend a lot of time online getting involved with people's drama and lives?

The same exact threads, word for word was posted not that long ago, the odds of that being someone else are not very high. You have made multiple threads about this situation. Break ups suck. Obsessing over them only hurts you. Get help.

You are obsessed with some dcum woman's breakup story. I didn't mention a breakup, ex, or new girlfriend anywhere in my main post. I mentioned fat people among other people and you got annoyed. You call vs models anorexic yet that is what a beautiful curvy woman looks like without cankles and with a defined waist.

I suggest you take your own advice and get help, get some sun, and stop obsessing and fighting like mad over who you think is a troll. Make friends, love life, and get off the internet?

No one is fighting, OP.

I know it's you AGAIN. You keep posting over and over at the same time then stay quiet again. You have multiple personality disorder. Get help please.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I am one of the (clearly multiple) posters who remember your posts from recent weeks. I posted in website feedback and apologized above for calling you a troll. I'm not 100% sure I'm wrong about that but I will take Jeff's word on it.

For the record, I'm not obsessed with you or trying to be mean to you. I enjoy this forum and read it regularly. I posted in that previous thread trying to help and gave genuine advice about letting it go. I am not a troll and put a lot of thought into my posts. I try to be a positive impact on DCUM not a negative one and it is frustrating when I put time and energy into trying to give a poster genuine and well meaning advice only to find out it was a troll/totally fake.

So some people will call me a DCUM hall monitor but I just really dislike trolls in the relationship forums wasting people's time. So IMO it is you who is the bad guy here. Repeatedly calling people who tried to give you real advice before (and therefore remember your post because we cared at the time) crazy obsessed lunatics.

This.

You again. WACKO!