Echoage parties - anyone familiar with these and what would you do?

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Anonymous wrote:I think what bothers me about this is the appearance of trying to have it both ways. It seems like the charity is a front for a request for cash. I think it would be a nice idea if all the donations went to the suggested charity and the parents agreed privately with their child that they would match the total or some percentage to purchase a gift.

Well said. The charity part doesn't bother me, its that 1/2 of the amount goes to the kid.

+1

I don't mind the charity part - especially if its something the KID is really passionate about. The "and 1/2 goes to a gift the child wants....." part feels really tacky.