Did you mean to post this in the HS magnet thread? |
I have the opposite issue. Fantastic standardized test scores, but poor grades and weak work ethic. This is why MCPS looks at the whole picture. At first I thought I wanted DS to go to a magnet middle school but I think he’s better off not going. I think it probably the same with your child. If she is that anxious that it affects her scores then maybe she shouldn’t be in the program. It’s a bitter pill to swallow to think that maybe your child wouldn’t fit in but imagine how miserable she’d be in a program that would exacerbate her anxiety. And in the long run, wu ith that kind of work ethic, she’ll be fine. |
There sure can be. Otherwise all the school districts that are struggling to make their magnet programs more diverse - see the metis report for examples - would have just implemented universal screening and we all would be singing kumbaya. Heck, even MCPS had to include the peer cohort criterion in addition to universal screening. Universal screening is necessary, but not remotely sufficient. |
There is something pretty incongruous about folks who are in good station in life now sending children to magnets while they agree that those seats will make much more of an impact for a poor/LMC kid. |
| It only takes one generation to forget where you came from and believe you did it yourself and everyone else can do the same. |
| People, come on. Are you expecting the PPs who grew up poor/LMC to deliberately forgo the magnet opportunities for their kids out of a sense of altruism? If so, please list all the examples where you yourselves sacrificed your children’s benefit for altruistic reasons. |
I would frame this differently. People who grew up working class know how easy it is to slide back when you are first generation middle class. You have a far less reliable safety net if you suffer job less or illness, AND you have obligations to your family that folks who grew up comfortable do not have. |
My DH and I might have clawed our way to a good station, but my children are AA and have disabilities. They still need to take advantage of opportunities like magnet if they are to have a shot at staying middle class. |
Only if the poor/LMC kid needs the magnet level of rigor. If the education prior to that has been substandard then your poor/LMC kid is not served by being in the magnet. All the URMs/poor and LMC parents crying about inequity of magnet programs should save the outrage about the lack of basic foundational education in MCPS. A lot of parents are sacrificing their personal time, money and quality of life to teach their kids at home. Now, if the URM or FARMS parents are themselves uneducated then there is even more reason to advocate for good education at the school. That is not happening but the URMs and FARMS parents have no outrage over that. It is not that they are ignorant either or it is a big state secret that standards at MCPS is falling. The utter disinterest in wanting to be engaged in any thing concerning their kids schooling is appalling from these parents. And at some point, personal responsibility of not having children would have been preferable, than having poor parenting skills. |
How are you not doing the same thing as opportunity hoarding? Being AA with disabilities means that you will have all the shots at all the top programs and universities. And you are not even poor or uneducated. LOLz. Let me guess. You are basically riding the URM gravy train, since you are educated, married and have recently immigrated from Nigeria. COOL!!! |
DP. Don’t be a racist jerk. Sorry if you’re not satisfied with your own kids. |