Tori Spelling Pregnant with 5th child

[Anonymous]

I'm so sick of the Tori's Dad left her no money story. It is common for a deceased parent to give the remaining spouse all the assets. NOT the kids. They wouldn't and shouldn't get anything until Candy passes.

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Anonymous wrote:She likes having babies and being pregnant I guess.

Well, I would like to drink wine all day, because I like being drunk. But that doesn't exactly make it a worthwhile reason to do it. It's morally reprehensible to bring a fifth child into that den of dysfunction. And yes, I'm being judgemental, which, in this case, I think at least of a majority of people would warrant as justified.

Heck, yeah, I'd rather drink wine all day, no kidding. I can't imagine *liking* being pregnant and giving birth - but she must like it. Don't get me wrong, I love my kids and I wouldn't trade them for all the wine in the world but to enjoy being in the pregnant state a lot is weird to me. Enjoying birth (as amazing as it is) is even weirder to me. Some women seem to enjoy the pregnancy/birth aspect more than the child. She strikes me as that type of mom for some reason.

Wine? Now that is something I can relate to.

Except that she had pregnancy complications that almost led to her death last time. According to reports, she spent 10 weeks in the hospital and 4 months on bedrest.

http://www.eonline.com/news/352839/tori-spelling-reveals-pregnancy-complications-almost-died-while-carrying-baby-finn

And she has had 4 c-sections.

I remember reading that story when it came out. I had the same condition (complete placenta previa). I also spent months on bedrest. It is a no-joke condition, BUT I found the article to be really bizarre because either she didn't realize she had it early on, or she wasn't put on appropriate restrictions early on. I remember the article mentioning that she was doing some film with karate kicks or something, which is very much against the restrictions for a full previa (even things like sex and yoga are OUT). There's a relatively low chance of recurrence (I think maybe 5%, even for people that had had it before--it's more like .1% for people that haven't had it before), and any moron of a doctor would check her placenta early for it and put her on appropriate restrictions this time.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Maybe it's not the pregnancy part she likes but the baby stage, I have a cousin like that who loves the baby stage. She had five kids, doted on the babies and ignored the older kids and/or put them to work caring for the younger (not baby) ones She told me once that she just loved feeling needed...

+1

Very common.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She likes having babies and being pregnant I guess.

Well, I would like to drink wine all day, because I like being drunk. But that doesn't exactly make it a worthwhile reason to do it. It's morally reprehensible to bring a fifth child into that den of dysfunction. And yes, I'm being judgemental, which, in this case, I think at least of a majority of people would warrant as justified.

Heck, yeah, I'd rather drink wine all day, no kidding. I can't imagine *liking* being pregnant and giving birth - but she must like it. Don't get me wrong, I love my kids and I wouldn't trade them for all the wine in the world but to enjoy being in the pregnant state a lot is weird to me. Enjoying birth (as amazing as it is) is even weirder to me. Some women seem to enjoy the pregnancy/birth aspect more than the child. She strikes me as that type of mom for some reason.

Wine? Now that is something I can relate to.

Except that she had pregnancy complications that almost led to her death last time. According to reports, she spent 10 weeks in the hospital and 4 months on bedrest.

http://www.eonline.com/news/352839/tori-spelling-reveals-pregnancy-complications-almost-died-while-carrying-baby-finn

And she has had 4 c-sections.

I remember reading that story when it came out. I had the same condition (complete placenta previa). I also spent months on bedrest. It is a no-joke condition, BUT I found the article to be really bizarre because either she didn't realize she had it early on, or she wasn't put on appropriate restrictions early on. I remember the article mentioning that she was doing some film with karate kicks or something, which is very much against the restrictions for a full previa (even things like sex and yoga are OUT). There's a relatively low chance of recurrence (I think maybe 5%, even for people that had had it before--it's more like .1% for people that haven't had it before), and any moron of a doctor would check her placenta early for it and put her on appropriate restrictions this time.

And those risks increase with every CS. The reason a fifth pregnancy is so dangerous after 4 CS is that there is so much scar tissue that can cause placenta issues like previa or accreta. The thing about her story that I don't totally buy is that she almost died but here she is pregnant again, so she didn't lose her uterus (the likely result of a complication like this if it nearly kills someone).

[Anonymous]

I like Tori and I wish her well.

She clearly loves kids and wanted a large family.

I hope she has a healthy pregnancy and delivery.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You guys do realize that not every woman is as miserable as you are, right?

I love being pregnant. My skin glows, my hair bounces, my mood is high, and I adore feeling my baby grow within me. I also have short, easy labors and gain very little weight. I also really love kids and being a mom. I can hardly say any of this in real life because the Miserable Mommy posse gets green with envy and hatred when any woman is fat, tired, and resentful during pregnancy. I'm currently eight months along with my third child and plan to have a fourth.

Maybe Tori actually loves being pregnant and being a mom! Shocker!

Nah, Dean is a douche and being pregnant just diverts her attention from all of her financial and marital issues.

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Anonymous wrote:You guys do realize that not every woman is as miserable as you are, right?

I love being pregnant. My skin glows, my hair bounces, my mood is high, and I adore feeling my baby grow within me. I also have short, easy labors and gain very little weight. I also really love kids and being a mom. I can hardly say any of this in real life because the Miserable Mommy posse gets green with envy and hatred when any woman is fat, tired, and resentful during pregnancy. I'm currently eight months along with my third child and plan to have a fourth.

Maybe Tori actually loves being pregnant and being a mom! Shocker!

You do realize being pregnant is not all about how you feel being pregnant, right? Being pregnant is about bringing children into this world and loving them, caring for them and giving them a shot at a good life. You don't procreate for bouncy hair. And you certainly don't do if your family is hanging on by a thread with the kids you already do have. It's not fair to them. You don't bring kids into this world with zero regards for the emotional damage you will likely cause them just because you like how it feels being pregnant. Grow up.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:You guys do realize that not every woman is as miserable as you are, right?

I love being pregnant. My skin glows, my hair bounces, my mood is high, and I adore feeling my baby grow within me. I also have short, easy labors and gain very little weight. I also really love kids and being a mom. I can hardly say any of this in real life because the Miserable Mommy posse gets green with envy and hatred when any woman is fat, tired, and resentful during pregnancy. I'm currently eight months along with my third child and plan to have a fourth.

Maybe Tori actually loves being pregnant and being a mom! Shocker!

You do realize being pregnant is not all about how you feel being pregnant, right? Being pregnant is about bringing children into this world and loving them, caring for them and giving them a shot at a good life. You don't procreate for bouncy hair. And you certainly don't do if your family is hanging on by a thread with the kids you already do have. It's not fair to them. You don't bring kids into this world with zero regards for the emotional damage you will likely cause them just because you like how it feels being pregnant. Grow up.

It's okay. Envy and misery tend to get in the way of reading comprehension. You can be forgiven for not having it in you to digest the parts of my post where I say in plain English that I love being a mom. But please stop worrying about my children. Your kids' mother is a presumptuous shrew who can't fathom others' happiness. They are going to need a lot of help.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You guys do realize that not every woman is as miserable as you are, right?

I love being pregnant. My skin glows, my hair bounces, my mood is high, and I adore feeling my baby grow within me. I also have short, easy labors and gain very little weight. I also really love kids and being a mom. I can hardly say any of this in real life because the Miserable Mommy posse gets green with envy and hatred when any woman is fat, tired, and resentful during pregnancy. I'm currently eight months along with my third child and plan to have a fourth.

Maybe Tori actually loves being pregnant and being a mom! Shocker!

You do realize being pregnant is not all about how you feel being pregnant, right? Being pregnant is about bringing children into this world and loving them, caring for them and giving them a shot at a good life. You don't procreate for bouncy hair. And you certainly don't do if your family is hanging on by a thread with the kids you already do have. It's not fair to them. You don't bring kids into this world with zero regards for the emotional damage you will likely cause them just because you like how it feels being pregnant. Grow up.

It's okay. Envy and misery tend to get in the way of reading comprehension. You can be forgiven for not having it in you to digest the parts of my post where I say in plain English that I love being a mom. But please stop worrying about my children. Your kids' mother is a presumptuous shrew who can't fathom others' happiness. They are going to need a lot of help.

(NP) And you are so busy with your bouncy hair that the point of PPs post whooooshed right over your head. She is not referencing YOU and your situation -- who the fuck knows your situation on this anonymous board? -- she is referencing Tori bringing another baby into the world, amid her precarious marriage and financial situation, which is what this thread is about.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Omg the oldest boy looks so sweet. I feel horribly guilty even thinking anything about his weight ?

I didn't see anyone making fun of him. It was a comment about her and Dean's parenting. For young kids, it's the parents' responsibility to make sure the kids are eating healthy. I actually like Tori, and got a kick out of the early years of her reality show when they were doing the B&B and pregnant with Liam. In those years I remember her CONSTANTLY giving that kid a treat to keep him calm during errands etc.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You guys do realize that not every woman is as miserable as you are, right?

I love being pregnant. My skin glows, my hair bounces, my mood is high, and I adore feeling my baby grow within me. I also have short, easy labors and gain very little weight. I also really love kids and being a mom. I can hardly say any of this in real life because the Miserable Mommy posse gets green with envy and hatred when any woman is fat, tired, and resentful during pregnancy. I'm currently eight months along with my third child and plan to have a fourth.

Maybe Tori actually loves being pregnant and being a mom! Shocker!

You do realize being pregnant is not all about how you feel being pregnant, right? Being pregnant is about bringing children into this world and loving them, caring for them and giving them a shot at a good life. You don't procreate for bouncy hair. And you certainly don't do if your family is hanging on by a thread with the kids you already do have. It's not fair to them. You don't bring kids into this world with zero regards for the emotional damage you will likely cause them just because you like how it feels being pregnant. Grow up.

It's okay. Envy and misery tend to get in the way of reading comprehension. You can be forgiven for not having it in you to digest the parts of my post where I say in plain English that I love being a mom. But please stop worrying about my children. Your kids' mother is a presumptuous shrew who can't fathom others' happiness. They are going to need a lot of help.

(NP) And you are so busy with your bouncy hair that the point of PPs post whooooshed right over your head. She is not referencing YOU and your situation -- who the fuck knows your situation on this anonymous board? -- she is referencing Tori bringing another baby into the world, amid her precarious marriage and financial situation, which is what this thread is about.

Seriously, is your name Tori? Did you mistakenly think this thread was about you? *cue "You're So Vain"*

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You guys do realize that not every woman is as miserable as you are, right?

I love being pregnant. My skin glows, my hair bounces, my mood is high, and I adore feeling my baby grow within me. I also have short, easy labors and gain very little weight. I also really love kids and being a mom. I can hardly say any of this in real life because the Miserable Mommy posse gets green with envy and hatred when any woman is fat, tired, and resentful during pregnancy. I'm currently eight months along with my third child and plan to have a fourth.

Maybe Tori actually loves being pregnant and being a mom! Shocker!

You do realize being pregnant is not all about how you feel being pregnant, right? Being pregnant is about bringing children into this world and loving them, caring for them and giving them a shot at a good life. You don't procreate for bouncy hair. And you certainly don't do if your family is hanging on by a thread with the kids you already do have. It's not fair to them. You don't bring kids into this world with zero regards for the emotional damage you will likely cause them just because you like how it feels being pregnant. Grow up.

It's okay. Envy and misery tend to get in the way of reading comprehension. You can be forgiven for not having it in you to digest the parts of my post where I say in plain English that I love being a mom. But please stop worrying about my children. Your kids' mother is a presumptuous shrew who can't fathom others' happiness. They are going to need a lot of help.

(NP) And you are so busy with your bouncy hair that the point of PPs post whooooshed right over your head. She is not referencing YOU and your situation -- who the fuck knows your situation on this anonymous board? -- she is referencing Tori bringing another baby into the world, amid her precarious marriage and financial situation, which is what this thread is about.

Seriously, is your name Tori? Did you mistakenly think this thread was about you? *cue "You're So Vain"*

You guys are just jealous of her bouncy hair!!

That's all gonna fall out 4 months PP

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You guys do realize that not every woman is as miserable as you are, right?

I love being pregnant. My skin glows, my hair bounces, my mood is high, and I adore feeling my baby grow within me. I also have short, easy labors and gain very little weight. I also really love kids and being a mom. I can hardly say any of this in real life because the Miserable Mommy posse gets green with envy and hatred when any woman is fat, tired, and resentful during pregnancy. I'm currently eight months along with my third child and plan to have a fourth.

Maybe Tori actually loves being pregnant and being a mom! Shocker!

You do realize being pregnant is not all about how you feel being pregnant, right? Being pregnant is about bringing children into this world and loving them, caring for them and giving them a shot at a good life. You don't procreate for bouncy hair. And you certainly don't do if your family is hanging on by a thread with the kids you already do have. It's not fair to them. You don't bring kids into this world with zero regards for the emotional damage you will likely cause them just because you like how it feels being pregnant. Grow up.

It's okay. Envy and misery tend to get in the way of reading comprehension. You can be forgiven for not having it in you to digest the parts of my post where I say in plain English that I love being a mom. But please stop worrying about my children. Your kids' mother is a presumptuous shrew who can't fathom others' happiness. They are going to need a lot of help.

(NP) And you are so busy with your bouncy hair that the point of PPs post whooooshed right over your head. She is not referencing YOU and your situation -- who the fuck knows your situation on this anonymous board? -- she is referencing Tori bringing another baby into the world, amid her precarious marriage and financial situation, which is what this thread is about.

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Tori has a lot of instability in her life. She can like being pregnant till the cows come home but is it really fair to her existing kids to bring another mouth to feed into this world that will further divide her already limited attention? For example, she owes hundreds of thousands to Am Ex. If her mother doesn't pay her debt for her, what will she do?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You guys do realize that not every woman is as miserable as you are, right?

I love being pregnant. My skin glows, my hair bounces, my mood is high, and I adore feeling my baby grow within me. I also have short, easy labors and gain very little weight. I also really love kids and being a mom. I can hardly say any of this in real life because the Miserable Mommy posse gets green with envy and hatred when any woman is fat, tired, and resentful during pregnancy. I'm currently eight months along with my third child and plan to have a fourth.

Maybe Tori actually loves being pregnant and being a mom! Shocker!

You do realize being pregnant is not all about how you feel being pregnant, right? Being pregnant is about bringing children into this world and loving them, caring for them and giving them a shot at a good life. You don't procreate for bouncy hair. And you certainly don't do if your family is hanging on by a thread with the kids you already do have. It's not fair to them. You don't bring kids into this world with zero regards for the emotional damage you will likely cause them just because you like how it feels being pregnant. Grow up.

It's okay. Envy and misery tend to get in the way of reading comprehension. You can be forgiven for not having it in you to digest the parts of my post where I say in plain English that I love being a mom. But please stop worrying about my children. Your kids' mother is a presumptuous shrew who can't fathom others' happiness. They are going to need a lot of help.

(NP) And you are so busy with your bouncy hair that the point of PPs post whooooshed right over your head. She is not referencing YOU and your situation -- who the fuck knows your situation on this anonymous board? -- she is referencing Tori bringing another baby into the world, amid her precarious marriage and financial situation, which is what this thread is about.

Seriously, is your name Tori? Did you mistakenly think this thread was about you? *cue "You're So Vain"*

You guys are just jealous of her bouncy hair!!

That's all gonna fall out 4 months PP

Lol, I didn't see bouncy hair PP's point until your post. You are an envious bitch. Hoping someone else's hair falls out? What kind of middle school stuff is that?

[Anonymous]

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Tori has a lot of instability in her life. She can like being pregnant till the cows come home but is it really fair to her existing kids to bring another mouth to feed into this world that will further divide her already limited attention? For example, she owes hundreds of thousands to Am Ex. If her mother doesn't pay her debt for her, what will she do?

WTH? She was raised by a two parents and essentially steadily employed by her father.

The only "instability" in her life has been brought on by herself. Marrying someone; then having an affair with another married person who had 1 child and in the middle of an adoption. Messy divorce. Choosing to stay with a spouse who has cheated on her. Having sex when it's medically unadvised too soon after birth and getting pregnant. Spending way more money than she makes.