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I was afraid that what you stated as a conclusion is true: Contracts do mean nothing.
It's complete bullshit.
No, contracts do mean something, but not everything. The sellers did get $2K--as stated in the contract. If contracts meant nothing, the sellers would have gotten nothing. In this case, the agent f-ed up and should have demanded a higher earnest. And if the agent told you that $2K in the DC metro area is standard, your agent is lying. In hot markets (we live in CC DC), it's not unheard of to hear of 10% EMDs on homes that are up for bidding wars. These are homes in the $750K+ range, so EMDs are upwards of $70K. Now, that is some serious change that buyers will NOT walk away from.
OP might consider a new realtor.
I know it's necessary in some markets, but I could never put that kind of money down. Unanticipated things can happen, that could financially cripple some people.
Can't you just roll the EMD into the downpayment for the loan at closing? If so, why is 10% now instead of 10% at closing (say in 30 days) such a big deal?
Because this buyer obviously wants to have it both ways and be able to jump out if needed.
PP here. I'm not saying I want to breach the contract. I'm saying that things happen. Suppose I get in a horrible car accident and can no longer purchase the house. If all contingencies are removed, then I lose the EMD. I think it's acceptable to lose 10,000 to 30,000 bucks to make up for the seller having to take their house off the market, but 75-100K? That wildly exceeds any damages the seller could possibly incur, especially in the type of market that would require that type of deposit. In my above example, I now am in the hospital and out six figures.
People always give sob stories I know, and a contract is a contract. All I said is I would never sign a contract that left me with that type of exposure, because I realize that unexpected things can happen. If I lose out on the hottest houses, so be it.
Sometimes you have to get out of a contract. You shouldn't sign one in which the terms of getting out will financially ruin you.