You know she was required to wear a skirt. In a public school. Times have changed. |
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I have a 10th grader. What's the deal with deadlines and due dates? My kid hasn't intimated that there's been any change in those. She seems to know when stuff is due, and does it before it's due. When her grades dip, it's because the online grading system puts a zero as placemarker, and she knows it's not her real grade. No stress.
This is NOT hard for regular kids, people. And the grading is much more fair than it was before. Stop whining. How are your kids going to function in life if they can't deal with K-12 grading? If your kid has an IEP, and grading policies appear to be muddled up for that group, then maybe advocacy with the PTA, and the various SN parenting groups that exist MCPS-wide, might be helpful. My SN kiddo with extended time and an IEP was able to survive high school during the pandemic, when MCPS started using *multiple* platforms for high schoolers, that each had to be consulted every day to check on assignments and due dates. It was HELL, until he got the hang of it. I'm sure this current system isn't as bad. |
It's relevant because kids were able to manage their work without mom and without a computer. We are instilling learned helplessness. |
I don’t know what to tell you. The due date/deadline issue for IEP students has been an ongoing issue at my school for the last few years. Finally we had an all staff meeting where administration clarified that deadline applies to all students. IEP/504 students get extended time based off the due date but there is no reason to change the deadline for them. |
Gold ⭐️ star for you and yours. |
There's another difference from when we were kids. Parents have access to grades immediately and yet parents don't know the ins and outs of what's happening at school. Over the years, there have been dozens of times when i've seen zeroes or other alarming grades in ParentVue, and gotten on the case of the kid only to see it resolved a few days later. In some cases, it's surely that the teacher accepted late work. I think it's often due leeway given after absences that extends much longer than I would anticipate. Sometimes it's because teachers have the system set up in a funny way (maybe an incorrect due date that shows a zero in parentvue before the assignment is actually submitted). A few teachers have Canvas automatcially grade multiple choice questions but they hand grade essays, and so the score from a half-graded assignment shows up for parents to see. A couple of times, I contacted the teacher about the problems I was seeing and the teacher has told me everything was submitted and I shouldn't worry about it-- parentvue will catch up (echoing what my kid said but I hadn't believed). This last spring, one of my kid's teachers did all kind of bizarre assignment substitutes that even the kid never really figured out-- it was the teacher's way of giving students individualized assignments to prep for their personal weaknesses and needs for the AP exam but from the long, anxiety-ridden descriptions from my kid, my guess is that even the teacher couldn't track all of the grade changes and substitutions. My point is that back in the day, the kid would work it out with the teacher and parents wouldn't be the wiser as long as the two resolved it before report cards. Now, a good chunk of kids have alarmist parents (like me) who jump on them the day something looks awry in Parentvue. Which is 1000% more stressful for kids than we had it. |
This is how my kid is finding it. Currently has all As in Canvas, but is stressed out that one bad test (her BC Calc has a test scheduled for the last week of school, for instance), will bring her semester grade down. I mean, this is how it should work, I guess. But her older siblings would be relaxing by this point in the semester. Doing the work and aiming for quarter As. But not stressing out about it. The fact that most grades early in the quarter were toughly-graded AP practice tests makes it worse. The last month has been trying to dig out of a ditch from those tough grades. |