Would you date a 48 year old making 120k?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:This is a perfectly normal salary, what is the problem?

People troll this forum. If you believed what you read here, everyone in DC is a BigLaw lawyer making at least 400k/year.

Based on the marital track record of many of my law school colleagues who went into BigLaw I’m not sure why anyone would want to date a BigLaw lawyer making at least $400k/year…

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He works for a non profit.

I feel like his income is a dealbreaker.

If I liked him I would

[Anonymous]

I would if he was a great person and passionate about his work

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You all are absolutely insane. F this place. Capitalist brain worms.

Truth!!

[Anonymous]

Yes. The Average American income is $66k.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Depends on his age relative mine. No way I’m banking a man who is older man myself and makes half my income. And it WILL end up me banking them as they wouldn’t be able to pay their way for the level of travel etc that I can afford traveling single. At this salary they likely can only afford camping . I stay at nice hotels. We will end up arguing about my own money as they will think I’m wasteful and spoilt. I had it happen already once - a guy scolded me for having a cleaning lady and not cleaning a 3000 house myself

If he’s younger hot and really great in bed I would consider it for a short term relationship

Otherwise. I accepted I will be single in retirement in fact I plan to foster kids to feel needed and to give something away. But I won’t take a financial dependent - a cheap old low paid man who is not the father of my kids.

No way

Let the church say Amen

You wouldn’t stay in a hotel like a Comfirt or Holiday Inn? Too lowbrow?

Not with an old timer with cooties if I’m 20

[Anonymous]

These responses are so sad.

--teacher

[Anonymous]

It’s a sad and pathetic life if you are just (or mostly) chasing money. The thing with money is no matter how much you accumulate, or how much your partner accumulates, it won’t fix the things that made u so pathetic u needed to chase money in the first place. The presence of more money will just accentuate those traits. It’s a bit of a paradox really.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It’s a sad and pathetic life if you are just (or mostly) chasing money. The thing with money is no matter how much you accumulate, or how much your partner accumulates, it won’t fix the things that made u so pathetic u needed to chase money in the first place. The presence of more money will just accentuate those traits. It’s a bit of a paradox really.

What is sad is you pretending that life doesn’t cost money

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:$120k a year doesn’t seem bad. DH and I each make that amount as teachers and we are a little older.

Where are teachers making that much money?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It’s a sad and pathetic life if you are just (or mostly) chasing money. The thing with money is no matter how much you accumulate, or how much your partner accumulates, it won’t fix the things that made u so pathetic u needed to chase money in the first place. The presence of more money will just accentuate those traits. It’s a bit of a paradox really.

What is sad is you pretending that life doesn’t cost money

Sure it does but my values run counter to this area in that I don’t think you only count if you take international vacations or have your kids go to private school and play travel sports.
Ps I’m a woman and make 120k and married someone who makes less than me.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Depends on his age relative mine. No way I’m banking a man who is older man myself and makes half my income. And it WILL end up me banking them as they wouldn’t be able to pay their way for the level of travel etc that I can afford traveling single. At this salary they likely can only afford camping . I stay at nice hotels. We will end up arguing about my own money as they will think I’m wasteful and spoilt. I had it happen already once - a guy scolded me for having a cleaning lady and not cleaning a 3000 house myself

If he’s younger hot and really great in bed I would consider it for a short term relationship

Otherwise. I accepted I will be single in retirement in fact I plan to foster kids to feel needed and to give something away. But I won’t take a financial dependent - a cheap old low paid man who is not the father of my kids.

No way

You don't/won't have any kids.

[Anonymous]

If he is childless, that’s fine. If he has kids- that a big portion of that money is going toward child support, college savings, etc. If that is the case, then no I wouldn’t date him

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:These responses are so sad.

--teacher

The normal people are not on this board. I only responded because i can’t bear a teacher think this board has anything to do with reality!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:$120k a year doesn’t seem bad. DH and I each make that amount as teachers and we are a little older.

Where are teachers making that much money?

Teachers make that in the DC area, but I'd say they are mostly at the top of the scale. We are a two teacher family and at the top of the MA+30 scale the salary is just over $128,800 for Fairfax County. Arlington is around $141k at an earlier point on their pay scale. Prince William $151k.

https://www.pwcs.edu/about/departments/talent_acquisition/compensation/salary_scale_information

https://www.asd16.org/documents/administration/human-resources/salary-schedules/815808

https://www.fcps.edu/careers/salary-and-benefits/salary-scales