Growing, deepening loathing for hyper-consumer people and families

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
Live and Let Live.
Not everything is for everyone.

But this juvenile basic BS affects everyone. I do not consent to the trashing of my planet for your week of whimsy.

No one needs your consent.

Our planet, your choice, amirite?

Selfish SOB.

[Anonymous]

OP I think you need to step away from social media. But also....people decorate for the holidays!! It's festive and fun, and it makes my kid happy. I reuse the same decorations year after year and maybe add one small thing here or there, including making home made stufv. It's not like I buy my decorations, throw them out, and replace them with brand new stuff next year. I also really enjoy walking around and looking at other peoples holiday displays during the holiday season. Just let people enjoy things.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP I think you need to step away from social media. But also....people decorate for the holidays!! It's festive and fun, and it makes my kid happy. I reuse the same decorations year after year and maybe add one small thing here or there, including making home made stufv. It's not like I buy my decorations, throw them out, and replace them with brand new stuff next year. I also really enjoy walking around and looking at other peoples holiday displays during the holiday season. Just let people enjoy things.

+1. We have a few inflatables in our yard, which my kids love. But we've only purchased one every 2-3 years since having kids. They all get reused annually and we've even made repairs instead of tossing broken ones. It's a small amount of stuff for a big impact.

[Anonymous]

My family watched ET together around Halloween last year.
In the movie, the characters decorated the day of.

I remember this in real life. I remember holiday seasons used to be shorter. It was possibly **just** the holiday. I was born in 84. I think we carved a pumpkin the week of. We put together our porch the day before.

It adds so much more stress to put up enough decorations that it takes a project management chart (lol) and weeks ahead. Meaning, it’s so much stuff that it would be a shame to put it up for only a few days.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP I think you need to step away from social media. But also....people decorate for the holidays!! It's festive and fun, and it makes my kid happy. I reuse the same decorations year after year and maybe add one small thing here or there, including making home made stufv. It's not like I buy my decorations, throw them out, and replace them with brand new stuff next year. I also really enjoy walking around and looking at other peoples holiday displays during the holiday season. Just let people enjoy things.

But your experience is different from others.
What about the people who buy and keep like you. And they keep adding on.

Or they don’t keep.

Or they find a trendy reason they need to replace it every year or two.

Just because you are more fiscally responsible, that’s not what OP was talking about.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP I think you need to step away from social media. But also....people decorate for the holidays!! It's festive and fun, and it makes my kid happy. I reuse the same decorations year after year and maybe add one small thing here or there, including making home made stufv. It's not like I buy my decorations, throw them out, and replace them with brand new stuff next year. I also really enjoy walking around and looking at other peoples holiday displays during the holiday season. Just let people enjoy things.

But your experience is different from others.
What about the people who buy and keep like you. And they keep adding on.

Or they don’t keep.

Or they find a trendy reason they need to replace it every year or two.

Just because you are more fiscally responsible, that’s not what OP was talking about.

Somehow I don’t think op is maintaining an accurate inventory spreadsheet of her neighbors’ giant inflatable spiders and their age. She’s just stewing in righteous disdain for them (yet i bet she flies for vacation on the regular!)
-not a giant skeleton owner

[Anonymous]

And some people pay other people to decorate their house for them.

It’s ridiculous.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I get that people don't want to rain on anyone's parade, but it is downright bleak to go to any big box store right now and see the Halloween stuff already marked down and Christmas in full swing. Pumpkin spice is but a distant memory. Thanksgiving doesn't even exist. Where does everything go? The mind reels.

Yes, I find the stores, like CVS, more depressing than anyone's house. All that crap sitting there and stuff is ugly and cheap looking too.

[Anonymous]

I agree and I don't agree.

I'm repulsed by and also have a tendency toward overconsumption at times. I hate "stuff" for myself, but I do love going all out on a good theme. Holidays are way overhyped but sure, I love winter light decorations and nothing beats our neighborhood at halloween. The reusability probably pales in comparison to plastic bottle usage.

Now, I hate the family photo shoots. I'm glad it's a sort of employment act of sorts for photographers. But I find the posed holiday cards completely ridiculous. They go straight from my mailbox to the trash. I've never made them and I feel lacking because I've never made them.

Something out there makes us feel adequate or inadequate.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
Live and Let Live.
Not everything is for everyone.

But this juvenile basic BS affects everyone. I do not consent to the trashing of my planet for your week of whimsy.

No one needs your consent.

Our planet, your choice, amirite?

Selfish SOB.

Righto!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:People live in the Capitol?

The poors?

There’s no such word as poors.

Clearly you are new here.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I get that people don't want to rain on anyone's parade, but it is downright bleak to go to any big box store right now and see the Halloween stuff already marked down and Christmas in full swing. Pumpkin spice is but a distant memory. Thanksgiving doesn't even exist. Where does everything go? The mind reels.

Yes, I find the stores, like CVS, more depressing than anyone's house. All that crap sitting there and stuff is ugly and cheap looking too.

And a lot of it gets thrown away, too. Not even sold at a discount later, just straight to landfill. Follow the trashwalker on Instagram or TikTok, or watch that documentary on Amazon and consumption from a couple years ago.

It's so bleak.

[Anonymous]

OP is describing a typical suburban mom in America.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I get that people don't want to rain on anyone's parade, but it is downright bleak to go to any big box store right now and see the Halloween stuff already marked down and Christmas in full swing. Pumpkin spice is but a distant memory. Thanksgiving doesn't even exist. Where does everything go? The mind reels.

Yes, I find the stores, like CVS, more depressing than anyone's house. All that crap sitting there and stuff is ugly and cheap looking too.

And a lot of it gets thrown away, too. Not even sold at a discount later, just straight to landfill. Follow the trashwalker on Instagram or TikTok, or watch that documentary on Amazon and consumption from a couple years ago.

It's so bleak.

I really hate Trump but if his dumb tariffs can make this plastic crap unaffordable, that would be one good thing. Stuff is just too cheap. Our grandparents would buy a couple things and pack them up carefully and save them for decades and the. Maybe make other decorations from upcycled things (a scarecrow with old ripped clotthes, jack o lantern from the pumpkin used to make a pie, perforated tin can lights for the driveway). We throw out so much stuff hecause stuff is so cheap, really too cheap because the real costs are all externalities.

[Anonymous]

It sounds like you dislike show-offs. I mean, I am not posting anything in my home on social media and you have no idea what I may or may not hyper consume. I know someone who decorates for each holiday and posts on social media about it, but what you wouldn't know unless you looked closely is that she reuses the same decorations each year.