Do you think your kid will be one of them? Because it sounds like you don't. |
| I don't get the question above. Nobody in this world who isn't a mega-donor buying a college tens or hundreds of millions in endowed chairs of facilities by prior arrangement knows which competitive college(s) their kids will get into. Unless your unhooked kid is a gold medal Olympian with a 4.0 GPA and perfect SAT scores, how could you know? |
^^ 100%. These schools with super low admission rates are basically lotteries among academic overachievers. They could fill their classes many times over with deserving kids. |
This is laughable. What are you actually talking about? I can think of 10 Ivy admissions off the top of my head in the past few years that didn’t row crew. What an absurd stance to take. |
I can definitely see why this process would be great for equity. |
Lol |
| My Walls kid is now rowing crew with TBC, which is more convenient than rowing through J-R. |
We didn’t do any of those things; we “just showed up.” Which is why it’s A CRAPSHOOT Y’ALL |
| OK, this is an interview. Do you know anybody who doesn't try to get ready for an interview and expects to succeed? I am on the equity side rather than the "my CTY kid should eat your lunch" side here, but if you didn't spend 10 minutes with your kid double checking they had a couple reasons they could get out of their mouth about why they should go to the school, I don't think you should expect much. |
It doesn't sound like you're on the equity side! |
This is what I say. Of course some kids are shy and not real out spoken. But by 8th grade they should be able to answer basic questions about likes and dislikes. It doesn't matter if it's a 5 or 10 min chat. The real issue is that parents have done everything and they haven't been allowed to grow and develop. |
| We just showed up. No interview prep at all. Mom could not even make it to the parent interview. Kid got in. Not particularly interested in Walls either. It seems pretty random |
An alternative takeaway is that some kids might interview well without prep and some might never do so. Or they need to mature. You can think what that might mean for the overall process. In my opinion, it’s not fair but I would admit a kid who’s ready for an interview over one who’s not even if that doesn’t reflect who prepared more. |
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This whole thread is bizarre, including OPs post. I don't know why a question about a school someone is considering would be juxtaposed by boosters v haters, when for most schools it's a lot of in between. DCUM is a place of extremes and not one I'd go to for actual feedback on a school.
These Walls posts are so predictable. You could play a drinking game off of them. Key phrases include: admissions are a lottery/crapshoot, the school is going downhill, crew team woes, and bonus points for the amazing kid who got into every selective private school but rejected from Walls. |
+1 Meanwhile all these parents are upset their kid didn’t get into Walls. If it’s going downhill and so on, why would you want your kid to go there? |