Based on what data? You sound broke and bitter. |
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Again, like I said before, the admissions results are largely due to the types of children these prep schools admit. When around half the kids are a legacy to a T10 school, when you recruit high-scoring URMs, when you have top athletes, it should not be shocking that you have great college results. The lions' share of elite college admissions goes to URM, legacy, and athletes. If you aren't in one of those groups, you are *not* benefitted from going to a prep school. If anything, your individual chances are hurt because you are competing with other students in those groups vying for the same spot. Public schools make it easier to get into an elite college, because the competition is far more lax. If Harvard is taking 5 kids maximum from any school, it's a lot easier to be the shining star at Jackson-Reed than it is at Sidwell or STA. Of course everyone gets into a "good" college. But the truth is that a lot of Big 3 kids end up at Tulane or Wisconsin, when they would've ended up at Penn or Columbia had they gone to a public school with easier competition, assuming they maintain the same SAT scores. |
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College matriculation has little to do with the school itself and a lot more to do with the quality of student.
I think a lot of parents in this group are deluded in thinking an Ivy will take their 3.6 GPA kid from a Big 3 because their school's prestige or rigor. That's just not the way this works. Parents who have gone through the process with these schools usually learn the hard way that the Ivy spots are reserved for special cases and the very top students. If your kid is in the 3rd decile at Sidwell/STA/NCS/GDS they're probably going to NYU, Colby, Colgate. Maybe UChicago if they apply ED1. |
I also know a Sidwell alum who went on to graduate from Boston College (gasp), and then Harvard Law. She’s now a partner in Big Law (one of the top 10 firms based on PPP). I bet her Sidwell education helped a lot—even though you only initially saw her heading to BC. That private school education/foundation continues to pay dividends decades later. |
| If you look at public school matriculations, the schools that are having more success are from wealthy white neighborhoods. The typical MCPS school is not having the same success, probably because there are no legacies at those schools. |
Again, fan fiction. |
Yes, but the internal competition is insane. If your kid is the seventh-best application to Penn that year, the odds are that they are getting rejected. If they apply from a second-tier public school, they will have a better chance at standing out. People have a hard time understanding this. A school can collectively have great college results, but that has to do with the pre-selected quality of students. Individual high-achievers always have better results from less-competitive high schools. It's the "big fish in a small pond" hypothesis. |
| Yes but that pond is infested with substandard education and gun violence. If you want to expose your kid to that for a better chance, have at it. |
Percentages. You’re competing with more students in a class of 500, compared to a class of 75 to 125. I’d much rather take my chances competing against fewer classmates. |
Fewer classmates, but much stronger and influential ones. |
I would rather my kid be around other kids with influential families than gang members. Just sayin. |
Not true by a long shot! The magnets are so much more competitive than the privates. The kids have great grades, extras, test scores, etc. Pretty sure if you take the kids from say the Blair Magnet program they'd be the top kids at a top private. The opposite is probably not so certain. A lot of kids are at private schools because they need more individual attention. Nothing wrong with that. But don't act like the Big 3 is filled with 95% superstars. |
So there are no legacies or wealthy families at W schools, McLean, Langley, etc? That’s news to me! Those schools have 3 to 5x more students than Big 3 schools. |