Dang she already wrote her essay. I’ll save that topic for my 9th grader. Thanks! |
This has to be one of the more pathetic posts I ‘ve seen on this forum in a long time and that is really saying something. College admissions officers are well aware of this trick, if your school has a good college counselor they would have told you this. On the other hand, if you made your kid spend hundreds of hours on a subject in which they had no interest, what a bad life lesson, in many ways. |
More importantly, who has a 18 year old who is enough of a lemming that they'll follow mommy's directions with regards to their free time. This idea is so completely foreign to me. |
Lived in Western PA. This name confusion happens and it makes UPenn people so mad it's kind of funny!!! Now live in Michigan. Fierce football tribalism prevents any such confusion between Spartans and Wolverines. The partisanship is overt and distracting to those who don't care about sports, from elementary schools (MSU has a strong K-12 educator program) to the adult workplace and just around town. |
Dh and I are also double legacies and our DC did not get into Penn last year with great Stats. On our Wharton whatapp group, we are seeing that the only kids of fellow classmates who got in are URM or are extremely influential or rich. For our second child, we will not waste the ED on Penn. Penn is actively moving away from legacies, so I would not factor that into any decision. |
Agree 100% with your assessment. |
I graduated from Pitt and agree that's probably sarcasm. However, for someone who wants to be a really big fish in a smaller pond, Pitt would probably be more fun. Pitt has Rhodes and Marshalls scholars. Pitt grads who stand out get into prestige medical schools, Harvard Law, etc. The professors have good backgrounds and seem to enjoy teaching. The new Chancellor just came from U of MN for a pay bump and because her own son goes to Pitt. Pitt also respects the liberal arts more than a lot of big universities do - valuing writing skills/English, history, languages, etc. There are plenty of campus activities and of course if the school is somewhat less selective there's more of a chance that your child can lead or participate vs. not even making the cut. When I was in college, my close friend at Penn said many of her freshman friends were still bitter about not getting into Harvard or Yale. I wonder if that's still a factor but doubt there's any reason for that to have changed...teen ingratitude being a fairly durable tendency, LOL. |
Unfortunately, unless you go to Harvard or Yale or Stanford or MIT....there will literally always be some kids at any school that graduated from X but wished they were at Y. I will say that Penn has Wharton and most of those kids are exactly where they want to be. |
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"Check out the DMV area admits for Penn. It's almost impossible for unhooked kids. The mid-Atlantic is not a desirable geography for Penn. There are so many smart, accomplished kids that want to go up the road to Penn. There is so much legacy."
This is not true for all schools. I just looked and my daughter's school has had 11 acceptances out of 50 apps at Penn in the last 3 years. Despite popular belief this is not a crap shoot. These schools want to know who the kid is not just scores and numbers. They want to see that the kid brings "something to the campus" and arent just going to go to school and study. They want kids who will make the campus a better place. I dont know why this is so hard to undrstand. |
So true…. And scores and grades are really only the very first step, and not at all dispositive…. so much more than that. At our school, there was one candidate who got in his scores and grades were lower than others who applied. But she had a very unique and compelling interest/EC, story and life trajectory with that story. |
Facts. |
| At my DC’s private, the Penn admits are all crew or lacrosse recruits or URM (who are usually also legacies) at the top of the class. |
Yes. You’ve mentioned. |
NP, so I actually haven’t mentioned |
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just a quick warning - this is just an idea, not sure if it's going to work.
how about donating a kidney? and write about this? i think it's a win win for all. |