A lot of millennials are 40/41 now. |
So it’s impossible that they’ve put in 40+ years of work and financial planning. |
| Boomers are terrible looking at the senators |
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Here's the dirty secret. The upper end of millennials and even younger, those in their late 20s, are doing extremely well, with salaries and HHI that would have been staggering by boomer standards at the same ages. The professional jobs especially law pays significantly more. And there's big tech, which didn't exist in the past. And the range of senior management roles in corporate America is much bigger now. And these people make money. There are people graduating from college today who will never make less than 100k for their entire lives while plenty of people in their 40s and 50s languish at upper five figures.
There are winners and losers in every generation. |
| My boomer parents bought their first home in the late 70s with an 18% interest rate, after paying the mortgage for 30 years they sold it for about the same price. Their midwestern city went way downhill during their lifetimes. Thank god they are savers and can have a decent retirement with no home equity, but these millennial complaints about the boomers aren’t accurate for the vast majority of that generation. One big difference I see is the boomers learned from their depression era parents to be frugal and all of the millennials o know can’t stop spending on everything they see. |
Oh, I see. You're one of those people who doesn't believe in . . . math. |
This is the crucial point. Timing = luck |
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I’m a Gen X’er with a history degree and DH has a political science degree. We both work in business. He makes 400k and I make 175k. It was definitely easier to get a job with a useless degree in the early 90’’s but man the pay was so low when we started out. He lived in an actual closet in NYC and I lived in a den on the west coast. |
| I think OP made some bad decisions, didn’t plan well, has ridiculous expectations or just had some bad luck. Millennials in my family are doin better than the previous generations. |
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Boomer have more money because they’re old and there are more of them. Gen X are richer now per capita than Boomers were at their age, and Millenials are about the same.
https://qz.com/millennials-are-just-as-wealthy-as-their-parents-1850149896 If that seems like a big disparity, you’re forgetting a larger one: There were a lot more Baby Boomers than Millennials, and they made up a much larger share of the population when they were in their early 30s. Even today, Millennials only overtook Baby Boomers as the largest American generation in 2019. When Horpedahl controlled for population size by measuring wealth in per capita terms, a different picture emerged: Millennials are as wealthy as Boomers were at their age, and Gen X (born between 1965 and 1981) is wealthier now than Boomers at the same age. |
Millennial: Boomers are evil, greedy people who are purposefully making life hard for Millenials Boomer: (rebuts argument with facts) MILLENIAL: See! Boomers are so mean! |
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No generation is a monolith. In my family, millennials have done well professionally but did no receive much of any help with school or early finances, and thus carry a lot more debt than their parents did at the same age. They've also received less help with childcare. Meanwhile the boomers have enjoyed very nice retirements, travel extensively, don't help out much or at all with grandkids. And now those boomers are hitting their 80s and expect their kids to take care of them, to bring the grandkids around all the time, to drop everything for them.
It has produced resentment. But I know from paying attention that not every family is like this. I think in my family it stems from the experiences and finances of prior generations. Boomers were the first in the family to have disposable incomes of any kind. They viewed their kids as so lucky to grow up middle or UMC, but didn't adopt the practices of other UMC families in terms of supporting the next generation. They just didn't know because they didn't receive that help. They don't understand how economic pressures shift over time but also as you move up in SES. |
This is such a deeply stupid point of view. My dad is a boomer. He worked full time all through college because his parents were poor and he was the first in his family to go to college. Then he went to Viet Nam. The.n he worked for 49 years without a significant break, usually 60 or more hours per week. Weekends when he wasn’t working, he fixed his house and his cars, did enhancements that increased his property value, and taught his kids to fix houses and cars. He’s rich, but he and my mom paid someone to clean their house. They cooked at home. They didn’t buy Starbucks. They never owned an expensive car until my dad bought a vintage Jag in his sixties, fixed it up and sold it for more than he paid for it. This wealth came from work OP. You should try it. |
| * never paid someone to clean their house. |