Because men don’t retire early they are just unemployed in the eye of society.
I was home one year in Covid laid off then consulting then laid off was horrible. I was 58. Now 61 back with my big office, parking lot, admin, doing board off sites. I feel alive again |
You do realize the commissions on those are 10% + and most of your “dividend” is taxed favorably because it’s a return of capital. I’m a professional advisor and while I would make way more money slinging these to my clients, I’ve seen thousands of these investments and maybe 5% (at best) are actually better than a boring S&P 500. You’re getting sold crap. Sorry |
She has over 6 mil NW, DC is a pretty incredible place with this money too, unless you have HIGH standards ![]() |
they have high standards, which is usually the main reason. Or it's pride and trying to prove something by the time they are too frail. It's not about being stimulated and engaged, there are plenty of hobbies or non profit type of work, volunteering or even starting a business if you want this, you can also scale down if you are in some professions. Many many people toil in high stress jobs with long hours and/or travel to earn as much as they can for as long as they can withstand it because they are accustomed to a certain lifestyle they can't give up. This is also true for people who aren't as high earning. Nobody likes to live scrimping and counting pennies for the rest of their lives, it's a scary idea for people who are used to having disposable income for a long time. |
These things are out of your control, in the meanwhile you are risking not enjoying freedom and retirement while your body is still working and you are alive. Do you even compare the risk of cataclysmic events like huge increases in COL and climate change vs. a very real risk we might drop dead before retirement if we wait too long or get an illness vastly reducing our QOL? While you work to prepare for apocalypse you are multiplying the risk of not being able to enjoy your retirement at all. This is an important deciding factor for me. Should I enjoy more modest lifestyle while still reasonably fit and healthy or should I compromise my health by working long hours, not spending quality time with family, and experiencing chronic stress for many years to come in anticipation I will live till 90s (which is never guaranteed). I don't want to start living at 65 |
For these people work isn't "working" it's power. It's about power for the mega rich. They don't agonize about being able to afford UMC conveniences or fancier things in retirement and help out their kids. For the worker bees not working means freedom to not have your time owned by someone else, to not have someone else tell you how you should spend your day, expect you to do certain things for them by a certain deadline, etc. It's what OP craves and she is right about that. Your example is completely moot and off key. |
I am 48 and have 6.5 million. No kids.
I stopped working during COVID - project was at a natural end point - and just….haven’t gone back. I’m not sure it’s a good idea or not. It makes me feel uneasy. But people in my family tend not to age well. They get cancer, they get dementia. They’re not the super healthy types hiking and camping at age seventy five. So part of me feels like I need to enjoy life now. I do feel limited in where I can live because Obamacare sucks in many places. DC has good Obamacare so I am staying here for now. If I went back to work it would be for: -societal respect (stopping during COVID made this easier because I haven’t had to answer the “what do you do” question much) -fear something’s going to happen to Obamacare -fear I don’t have enough money (I am frugal - my concern is more about elder care costs) |
Oh. I also worry that my brain is going to decline faster because im not working |
I don't have millions, but I don't need to work either to pay my bills.
But I want to work. I love to work. I hate certain aspects of my job (the commute in particular), but I'm so thrilled that I have a job and that I can work. I'm going to work until I'm in my 90s if my body and brain are still sharp. Sitting around spending my money is not the way I want to live my life. |
Sorry, are you trying to give investment and wealth management advice to those who are wealthier than you? Perhaps the people who are wealthier than you see things you don't see. If we reversed the direction of the conversation and said "why don't homeless people get jobs" most folks with common decency would be appalled by such a statement. So perhaps you know jack squat about the psychology, practicality, and planning of managing wealth at higher levels (even if personal consumption is low) Maybe it's just you, friend. |
In order to save millions, it requires alot of hard work, intention, sacrifice, and some luck over a long period of time for most folks. It takes alot of drive to get to a few million saved up and than you just quit?
Are you saying if you were training to be a professional athlete your whole life, worked with all types of coaches your childhood, than get drafted in the first round of football, that you would quit after your first multi million dollar contract? Money typically isn't the primary driver of highly motivated people, the money is a by product of the blood, sweat, and tears, but rarely are successful people only do things for the money which is why they don't quit prematurely after having a little success. I personally wouldn't be able to just quit, I could scale back some and enjoy more free time doing something stimulating and productive. |
What do you do that you make a lot and don't have huge amount of stress? Flexible hours and remote and no unreasonable clients or tight deadlines? I need to switch fields, so I try to get as much info from those who figured things out as I can. |
You sound young. The reason why many people who earned millions want to retire is because they are burnt out way before they hit standard retirement age, and don't see themselves doing what they do forever.. I know very successful people who do dream about selling their companies and despite success and having employees do pretty much most of the work if not all, they just dream about hassle free life like everyone else. If you are one of the unicorn workaholics who thrives on being busy and feeling superior to others, that's understandable, this doesn't describe all the people for whom earning their way to financial freedom came with sacrifices. Athlete comparison is just silly. You know athletic careers aren't long lasting, right? Because it's too intense and taxing on your body, many pro-athletes retire young, you just forget their names as they fade away. How many athletes play in their 40s, 50s? Duh. Those who are still in the spotlight in middle-old age usually capitalize on their fame and don't really play sports full time if at all. |
We have over 10M and still work because we have one kid left at home. We're tied to the school year. When they go to college, we'll retire and travel. |
This |