DH is too hungover to help out with the kids today. I need to vent!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:DH went out with a college friend last night. He rarely goes out and rarely drinks, so I can't begrudge him, but he came home entirely wasted, dramatically puked his guts out at 6am, and is now on the couch moaning and saying he's too sick to move. We have two kids' bday parties to go to, an indoor soccer practice, and have people coming over tonight (though he's asking if I can cancel). So damn annoyed.

Yet here you are doing just that. Wow.

I'm sure you never complain.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DH went out with a college friend last night. He rarely goes out and rarely drinks, so I can't begrudge him, but he came home entirely wasted, dramatically puked his guts out at 6am, and is now on the couch moaning and saying he's too sick to move. We have two kids' bday parties to go to, an indoor soccer practice, and have people coming over tonight (though he's asking if I can cancel). So damn annoyed.

God you're a terrible wife.

OPs DH is an immature, thoughtless husband, actually. No way my DH would get babied by me. He'd have the morning to get his sh-- together and then would be helping me the rest of the day.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Sounds like you are over scheduled either way.

100%

Wtf, are you serious? That’s a LIGHT weekend day for our family! Must be nice to have all that leisure time. I pray for Monday mornings to get a little break n

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Sounds like you are over scheduled either way.

100%

Do you have young kids? My Saturday is 3 swim classes, doggy training class and a dinner party tonight.

You don’t have to live that way.

What?? What does that even mean?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Sounds like you are over scheduled either way.

100%

Do you have young kids? My Saturday is 3 swim classes, doggy training class and a dinner party tonight.

Yes this is the way to minimize your one on one focused time with your children yet still posture as an involved parent.

Self righteous arse.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DH went out with a college friend last night. He rarely goes out and rarely drinks, so I can't begrudge him, but he came home entirely wasted, dramatically puked his guts out at 6am, and is now on the couch moaning and saying he's too sick to move. We have two kids' bday parties to go to, an indoor soccer practice, and have people coming over tonight (though he's asking if I can cancel). So damn annoyed.

God you're a terrible wife.

OPs DH is an immature, thoughtless husband, actually. No way my DH would get babied by me. He'd have the morning to get his sh-- together and then would be helping me the rest of the day.

You sound nice.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Sounds like you are over scheduled either way.

100%

Wtf, are you serious? That’s a LIGHT weekend day for our family! Must be nice to have all that leisure time. I pray for Monday mornings to get a little break n

you’re choosing that schedule. Choose differently if you want a different outcome. No kid needs to be scheduled all day long 7 days a week. Kids do need to be bored once in a while and do chores so they learn how to be functional adults.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Encourage him to go out drinking at least 1x/week with his friends to build a tolerance. Then this won't happen again.

Why would you encourage potential alcoholism.

Ok. NP. Need to chime in to this upright poster who repeatedly posts in every thread that one night of over drinking means DH is an alcoholic. I’m not sure what trauma you faced - maybe you grew up in an alcoholic family, etc. but you need to get a grip or get therapy. Yes, it’s possible to overindulge or ( gasp) go out with friends once a week for drinks and not be an alcoholic. You sound incredibly uptight and in need of therapy. Do you have kids? Teenagers? If so, I feel very sorry for them to have such an uptight, judgmental and anxious mother.