Because the decision to offer law school admission is not 99% based on who you know---it's largely about your gpa, LSAT and recommendation letters, and yes a bit about your connections. Getting into elite clubs at Northwestern has always been about who you know, those in sororities/frats pull their buddies into the top activities. |
So he's in the "Right Fraternity", correct? Ridiculous... |
It's an extension of who is in the "right frat/sorority". The previous poster said their son got in without doing any of the work---others do all the work and get rejected. |
Yes, it does sound terrible |
Why would anyone waste 320K on tuition for a professional career that pay little, unless your parents have money to burn? You could do that a public universities like University of Illinois for 200K+ less. |
Don't think the chess club is where the "popular frat guys" are hanging out..... |
60% of the undergraduates at Northwestern University receive substantial financial aid. Only wealthy families pay full cost. |
Add in Large school of music, which is also not a high paying field. And yes, engineers from Northwestern don't make more than anyone else---that's a given that an ENG/CS major from GMU/UMBC can make the same as someone at a "higher ranked" school. It's more about where the job is for pay |
The average financial aid recipient at Northwestern University pays about $27,000 per year total. Financial aid is all grant money--no loans. |
Because if you can afford it, NU gives a better learning experience overall. Largest class ever would be Chem 101/102 (or whatever they are calling them now) with maybe 300-350 students in the lecture. What's the largest class at U of I? I've been told well over 500 and there are many of them fresh/soph years. At NU majority of classes are less than 50---huge difference taking calculus with 500+ vs 35-50 students. Much easier to make connections, find profs to do research with, etc. That's what people are paying for. |
Competition escalates at every level one advances. I was a top track athlete. 4:06 miler in high school in the 70's. Doesn't get you much in the D 1 NCAA. The first step is knocking six seconds off pretty quickly. Easier said than done, especially since the impulse in college (especially if they are paying you) is to over train and live erratically. . Ditto with a sub 9 two mile high schooler (I did that too). Have to run that pace for 5k - sub 14 minutes - to be remotely competitive. And need to do it quickly. Even a speed athlete like me had to get there - watch a local road race and the winner in 15 minutes looks fast. Football is no different - everyone has to gain at least 10 -15 percent in weight but who knows whether they remain as quick. The kid I tutored started at 210 and went to 245. A safety at 210 but not fast enough. 245 was not a weight he could easily carry and I had endless discussions with him over the NFL. All State first team and the like - not an easy transition. Even some five stars don't pan out. Virtually every sport has similar challenges. Competition radically escalates. The academic environment is no different. The middle of the class at my school has 1500 SAT's today. Some don't study, some overachieve, some are skilled in a lopsided way in certain subjects. The competition is intense, and just as in athletic a healthy balance of humility and ego is required. Finding your niche academically and socially is helpful, and it doesn't just arrive at a doorstep. Most of the "big" careers require a visit to the treadmill, and you never really get off that treadmill. Must take it day by day. Not making a finance club is but a blip in the journey. |
| The pyramid narrows as you go to the top. There is room for only so many at each level. At any given level, you will find some are due to connections and others are due to their soft and hard skills. For those who rely solely on their skills, it gets harder but not impossible. Fortunately for them, there are application submissions through firm websites and Hireview screenings. You get through them, you will be called for phone interviews. A little bit of luck along the way never hurts. But for luck to favor you, you will have to try first! |
| This all sounds so icky. I opened this thread thinking it would be about academic challenges, but instead, it's all about social climbing and making connections to get a step up. I don't even see that many posts speaking to making genuine connections. So glad my kid isn't interested in Northwestern or finance. |
Not an accurate analogy as track athletes are measured by just one metric = time. |
Understandable. Competition increases as one "climbs the ladder" to success. definitely not for everyone. The clubs do make genuine connections with other members entering the field as well as with employers in the students' targeted professional field. And, yes, you are correct in understanding that success is not all about academics. For those interested purely in academics as a measure of success, consider investigating colleges & universities which send a high number or a high percentage of their graduates to PhD programs. |