Why do you think the SLAC grads are now weaker? |
🤷♀️Look, I’m just telling you the experience of one neutral person who is coming to this as a fairly new person to this forum. You can take the input or not. You sound like a crazed jealous obsessive to someone who really hadn’t given SLACs much thought before reading DCUM. Thanks to the posts I’ve read here, I’m now looking more closely at SLACs for my youngest, and I like what I see so far. Also I don’t get the person who is talking about the price. The kids I know who are going to lower-level SLACs have told me the amount of merit aid they get, and it’s substantial and certainly competitive with the state schools. Those are just the personal datapoints I have, but it doesn’t seem to be all that dramatically different in price. Anyhow, I’ve said my piece here. Keep ranting away (I know you will), just know that you don’t sound reasoned and logical to a fairly new poster. |
I am not the poster to whom you directed your post, but you are the one who appears to be over-the-top with emotionally based remarks designed to insult rather than to inform. Also, some of us have decades of experience with LACs and with universities. |
Right? If it's not that person's money, then why do they care? Some kids will not get into top SLACs, yet may not thrive at a state school. So what does it matter then if they go to a "CTCL level" school? And what is an "underachieving" kid?" FWIW, many kids with LDs are sometimes not diagnosed until late MS/early HS as they had developed techniques to compensate until they are no longer viable. |
Well I know she did not emerge when she was a student at a large public high school (which was larger than the college she chose). I have met people who told me that if you skip class or sit in the back row and sleep in very large survey classes (more common at large universities), you can go unnoticed entirely or for longer a big university (my kid's school had no classes larger than 50, and most were under 20. Also, each kid was assigned two advisors). I know she did not have to compete with graduate students to score a position working in her advisor's lab. And I am pretty sure that if she was taking The History of Food at a large school, the whole class would not be invited to go to their professor's house to cook the food they had based their final papers on, and meet his family. I know what my kid's experience was, and I have talked to PLENTY of people who had polar opposite experiences (such as having to study in their parents' living room during finals week because they could not find a place to study in the library/on campus. Seeing signs all over the library that it is not safe to leave your laptop or backpack for even a few minutes, etc). Those are not assumptions, those are experiences. |
| *Polar opposite experiences at large state universities. |
| IMO the best experience is a SLAC in a large city. Small community of students and professors to have as a "home" with a larger city to interact with and draw from for internships and job opportunities. |
Agree with this. In the city itself or within an easy commute. |
| I have a friend with a freshman kid in the dorms at UC Berkeley. Her dorm has been in multiple lockdowns due to invasions from violent street residents, where the kids have been ordered to stay in their rooms and lock the door. Meanwhile her kid hasn’t had a class since end of October because of strikes. Not really seeing how that experience is supposed to be so much better than my other friend whose kid is at Middlebury. |
I’m a different poster, and you really sound unhinged. |
Unless your kid has no desire to go to school in a large city. You’d be surprised at how many kids who grew up in the DC area actually want to escape to a smaller area for a few years. |
How so? I don’t see “unhinged” in any of that? |
| Does anybody actually think an honors college within a large state university is comparable to a SLAC? I've taught in SLACs and at smaller universities in the Boston region. There's no way that the honors college at UMass Amherst is anything like being a student at Holyoke or Holy Cross. And that's okay. Each has its role and attracts different students who are looking for different things. |
For starters, you keep coming back when you say you’re done. That’s unhinged. |
I don't know, you really need to be sure you'll fit in with the culture of such a small school. I went to a small private high school, and it was generally okay, but it would've been hard if I didn't fit in with the other kids. For college, I picked a large state school in order to have the potential for a lot of different social options. SLAC's are going to have a fairly distinct school culture, so that may or may not be attractive to a given kid. |