| Call or email the schools you applied to and ask for the daily and hourly class schedule by grade, and ask the class size of homeroom and each subject and how many teachers and how many aides there are for it. |
No it’s not. Families who want to have a strong chance of sibling attendance know good and well to apply earlier. Sibling preferences are for full-pay families who send their kids from the early years on. If you have a kid who gets in at 9th and think there will be a huge sibling preference for your next kid, you are delusional. Ninth is very competitive, and it’s for the kids who will do well in college admissions *regardless* of whether they go to a fancy private or not (these schools pick winners; they don’t make winners). It isn’t a sibling slush year. |
Again…yes, really. |
Not pp, but here’s what I’m saying: you clearly have no children at this school. Those who do know what’s going on. You, sir, do not. |
Please tell us what school your kids go to so we can all avoid it. TIA. |
| NP. They’re far more similar than different. Go with whichever feels more comfortable to you. Use commute distance as a tie breaker. Don’t let your search for perfect blind you to what’s good. |
This is super depressing. I guess it is safe to say that all of the other top schools are in a similar situation for 9th grade? |
The way the schedules work, and the kids are split up, there are almost never 22 kids in a classroom with a single teacher. In the lower school, there are two teachers in every room. In the middle school, they split up, so half the room goes to language, art or science, while the other half does english or history or math, and then they all flip. In the upper school, the classes are all small either labs, or discussion for the humanities. |
Siblings who graduate from our K-8 regularly get admitted to GDS for 9th grade. The general view is they are not always the strongest applicants in the group and there is a strong sibling preference even at 9th. PP I think your understanding here is off. |
| My kid needs time with the math specialist and NEVER get its, furthermore math specialist does not visit the classroom even on a weekly basis. And I sincerely hope something like math is a 5 day a week class. Not twice a week like during virtual. |
Which school? |
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After visiting, I preferred GDS and my spouse preferred Sidwell. Kid got into Sidwell and waitlisted at GDS. Kid went to Sidwell and didn't like it very much.
Sidwell seemed more connected to DC power circles and, although Sidwell's culture seemed nice on the surface, the community felt very restrained. GDS seemed to have more individualistic kids and feels a little warmer. Sidwell seems to be slightly more prestigious in the view of may DC people. I think this is based mostly on the parents, not the kids. College admissions are comparable (GDS may actually do slightly better). I actually think kids are happier, on the whole, at somewhat less intense schools like Maret, Burke, Field, SAES, Bullis, etc. |
+2 This was our impression as well. |
| Well I “keep it real” wherever I go so… |
totally agree. Sidwell parent here |