When you just don't feel like it

[Anonymous]

About 3-4 times a week we have great sex and are both happy. Other times in the week I just don't feel like it so I just let him kind of use me. Takes just a few minutes. Does anyone else do this? Is it strange?

[Anonymous]

I would assume that many people do this. Sometimes you just have to take one for the team.You're lucky it's only a few minutes.

[Anonymous]

Yes! My attitude is it takes only 10 minutes of my time and I amdoing it for him. Don’t get me wrong, I don’t just lay there and take it. I act interested, and enthusiastic. It is a very easy thing I can do that keeps him happy. Kind of like when he does dishes for me. We both do things that make the other person happy. We have been married for 17 years.

[Anonymous]

^^ I should add for clarity, I enjoy sex with my husband. I’m talking about just the times when he wants to and I am not feeling it.

[Anonymous]

Way too much. Once a week is plenty. If he wants more he can wank

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Way too much. Once a week is plenty. If he wants more he can wank

Lol, I like it a few times a week! Then I guess he just wants a quick release the other days.

[Anonymous]

If my wife were into it 3x a week I’d delighted. Damn.

[Anonymous]

I thought I was the only one who says he can "use" me when I'm not in the mood.

That being said I couldnt imagine having sex 3 or 4 times a week!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If my wife were into it 3x a week I’d delighted. Damn.

+1.

[Anonymous]

Sounds above normal. Keep on keeping on!

[Anonymous]

I just call it a quickie. I see no problem with this.

[Anonymous]

There is a reason why it's called wifely duty and the expression lie back and think of England is cliche. Yes, all women have duty sex except those few married to no.drive men. If you want to see how often married women would have sex, google sexual frequency in lesbian marriage. Hint, the answer is rarely to never

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:There is a reason why it's called wifely duty and the expression lie back and think of England is cliche. Yes, all women have duty sex except those few married to no.drive men. If you want to see how often married women would have sex, google sexual frequency in lesbian marriage. Hint, the answer is rarely to never

NP here, I love sex! Lots of women do.

[Anonymous]

My husband doesn’t have a high sex drive compared to other men (IMO). But we do it 3-4 times a week too and I feel that’s way too much. I also act interested and play my part but seriously I’d be ok with 1 time per week. Don’t feel bad OP—I love my husband and sometimes we don’t want to but we do it Anyway. Taking one for the team! Plus, it’s onlg about not 10-15 for me and husband too

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Way too much. Once a week is plenty. If he wants more he can wank

It’s a “sex drive” not a “wank drive” and it turns out there are other options if he wants more.