Is it bigotry to not date trans people

[Anonymous]

I put this here and not lgbt because I’m not lgbt. So soon it will be bigotry to having a sexual orientation? https://www.them.us/story/cis-trans-dating

[Anonymous]

Nope. Just preference/taste.

[Anonymous]

That's ridiculous. I don't date women because I prefer men.

[Anonymous]

No, just date who you are attracted to.

[Anonymous]

LMAO no

[Anonymous]

No. Man with his penis chopped off is not a woman. A woman with a fake penis is not a man.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I put this here and not lgbt because I’m not lgbt. So soon it will be bigotry to having a sexual orientation? https://www.them.us/story/cis-trans-dating

If it was would you step outside of your comfort zone to avoid being called a bigot?

[Anonymous]

Our poor teens.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Our poor teens.

I share that sentiment.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I put this here and not lgbt because I’m not lgbt. So soon it will be bigotry to having a sexual orientation? https://www.them.us/story/cis-trans-dating

If it was would you step outside of your comfort zone to avoid being called a bigot?

No one needs to be woke that bad

[Anonymous]

It's not bigotry to not be attracted to a certain type. It is bigotry to be attracted and even start dating, find out, then dump them.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It's not bigotry to not be attracted to a certain type. It is bigotry to be attracted and even start dating, find out, then dump them.

What if you dump them because you want bio-kids?

[Anonymous]

I feel like dating, much like employment, is basically an at-will situation. If you don't want to date someone for some reason, don't date them. If the reason that you don't want to date someone is that you have a prejudice against them (e.g., you think transgender people are mentally ill, etc.), then sure, work on being less of a bigot, but don't feel like you have to date someone in order to prove you're not a bigot. I feel like the grayer area is if you are already dating someone and don't know they're transgender and then break up with them when you find out. Is it bigoted? Sure, but it's not unsympathetic.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It's not bigotry to not be attracted to a certain type. It is bigotry to be attracted and even start dating, find out, then dump them.

What if you dump them because you want bio-kids?

I guess that depends on the specific situation. I know several transgender people who have bio kids. I also know several transgender people who are not interested in bio kids at all. It's not like it's one specific way for everyone. Certainly if you do not have the same childbearing/rearing priorities/values as a romantic partner, it's best to end that relationship, but that's about childbearing/rearing priorities, not the person's gender.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I put this here and not lgbt because I’m not lgbt. So soon it will be bigotry to having a sexual orientation? https://www.them.us/story/cis-trans-dating

If it was would you step outside of your comfort zone to avoid being called a bigot?

No one needs to be woke that bad

If you're truly woke, you'll take one for the team.