Why did the 2 posts get deleted from Relationships?

[Anonymous]

The poster who was having issues with her husband? I wanted to respond to the 2nd one, but it was deleted so fast. I think that poster needed help.

[jsteele]

The first thread had nothing but a single emoticon in the text of the post. That violates our rule that you have to have some discussion in your post. The second one unnecessarily made me part of the discussion. She can criticize her husband if she wishes, but that doesn't involve me.

[Anonymous]

Well, I still feel bad for her based on the 2nd post. I would have just asked her to leave you out of it, but I’m not the mod.

[jsteele]

Anonymous wrote:Well, I still feel bad for her based on the 2nd post. I would have just asked her to leave you out of it, but I’m not the mod.

That's the dilemma I face in such cases. The only way to communicate is in the thread itself so that makes me even more a part of it.

[Anonymous]

Op of referenced post. I’m sorry I brought you into it. Am I blocked for good or just 24 hours to cool off?

[jsteele]

Anonymous wrote:Op of referenced post. I’m sorry I brought you into it. Am I blocked for good or just 24 hours to cool off?

Just 24 hours. If I can remember your IP address, I can unblock you now.

[jsteele]

Okay, I remembered it and you should be unblocked.

[Anonymous]

Thank you