Urge to say I love you

[Anonymous]

Ug, I just had the urge (post sex) to say I love you to my AP. I restrained myself, thank goodness. I'm sure I wouldn't get one in return.
Is it time to break up?

[Anonymous]

Is he your soulmate? If not, it's time to break up.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Is he your soulmate? If not, it's time to break up.

You had sex with your neighbor?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Is he your soulmate? If not, it's time to break up.

You had sex with your neighbor?

What? No, of course not. My neighbor is gross.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Ug, I just had the urge (post sex) to say I love you to my AP. I restrained myself, thank goodness. I'm sure I wouldn't get one in return.
Is it time to break up?

Do you want one in return?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Is he your soulmate? If not, it's time to break up.

You had sex with your neighbor?

What? No, of course not. My neighbor is gross.

Didn't you hear? The neighbor is always, always the soulmate. HAHAHAHA....

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Is he your soulmate? If not, it's time to break up.

You had sex with your neighbor?

What? No, of course not. My neighbor is gross.

Didn't you hear? The neighbor is always, always the soulmate. HAHAHAHA....

I must have moved into the wrong neighborhood. Sigh.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Is he your soulmate? If not, it's time to break up.

You had sex with your neighbor?

What? No, of course not. My neighbor is gross.

Didn't you hear? The neighbor is always, always the soulmate. HAHAHAHA....

I must have moved into the wrong neighborhood. Sigh.

+1 me, too.

[Anonymous]

OP- are you the woman in this affair?

Did your AP ever set any ground rules, including making sure neither of you develop any emotions.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP- are you the woman in this affair?

Did your AP ever set any ground rules, including making sure neither of you develop any emotions.

No stated ground rules like that. But implied and we both know it. (Of course I'm the woman.)
It's a fairly long term affair (>2 years). So there is more than nothing as far as feelings go - we both like and enjoy each other. But I'm not holding out for him to leave his wife -- I'd be far more likely to leave my husband and ditch ap at the same time.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Ug, I just had the urge (post sex) to say I love you to my AP. I restrained myself, thank goodness. I'm sure I wouldn't get one in return.
Is it time to break up?

Why would a man say I love you to his side piece?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Ug, I just had the urge (post sex) to say I love you to my AP. I restrained myself, thank goodness. I'm sure I wouldn't get one in return.
Is it time to break up?

Why would a man say I love you to his side piece?

Mine said it to me first. We were both feeling it. He left his wife and we are still together many years later. I’m going to get insanely flamed for this but judge away. Life is too short not to be happy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Ug, I just had the urge (post sex) to say I love you to my AP. I restrained myself, thank goodness. I'm sure I wouldn't get one in return.
Is it time to break up?

Why would a man say I love you to his side piece?

Mine said it to me first. We were both feeling it. He left his wife and we are still together many years later. I’m going to get insanely flamed for this but judge away. Life is too short not to be happy.

Ever wonder if he says it to his new AP?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Don't say it. It only makes things worse.