A question about affairs

[cba]

Actually I have 2 questions:

1. If you've had an affair, do you regret it?
2. If you haven't had an affair BUT you've had the opportunity to and turned it down, do you wish you'd had the affair?

For the record I'm married (over 15 years) with children. I've had affairs but I don't want a divorce.

Feel free to ask me anything and I'll do my best to answer.

[Anonymous]

I don’t care about your affairs. Gross.

[Anonymous]

do you stay in the marriage because of kids? Im assuming you are are man. What would make your marriage better.

[Anonymous]

Do you give a sh*t about lying to your spouse, breaking your marriage vows, and being an all-around jack hole?

[Anonymous]

o you stay in the marriage because of kids? Im assuming you are are man. What would make your marriage better.

[Anonymous]

Are you a complete sleaze bag or just partial?

[Anonymous]

My ex girlfriend had a fling over a week period. We were close to breaking up and had a bad relationship and we both were immature and bad communicators.
I found out, we broke up, got back together. Dated another 5 years and then I cheated on her by having an affair with a married coworker.

I can tell you that she regretted her fling and years later was disgusted with herself.
I’m disgusted with myself as well and regret what I did. I know the woman chose to have an affair but I hurt that young family immensely.

I hope I learn from my actions. You have not. Go seek help

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:do you stay in the marriage because of kids? Im assuming you are are man. What would make your marriage better.

Welcome to 2018. Wrong assumption. Stars show women cheat as much as men now

[Anonymous]

How many STD’s have you had?

[Anonymous]

Does your spouse know about them? Does your spouse also have affairs?

[Anonymous]

I have not. But sexless going on a year, and sexual tension building with someone. I don’t want to cheat but it feels good to be desired again.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My ex girlfriend had a fling over a week period. We were close to breaking up and had a bad relationship and we both were immature and bad communicators.
I found out, we broke up, got back together. Dated another 5 years and then I cheated on her by having an affair with a married coworker.

I can tell you that she regretted her fling and years later was disgusted with herself.
I’m disgusted with myself as well and regret what I did.

I know the woman chose to have an affair but I hurt that young family immensely.

I hope I learn from my actions. You have not. Go seek help

Did the guy confront you? I would have kicked her to the curb and then beaten you senseless.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I have not. But sexless going on a year, and sexual tension building with someone. I don’t want to cheat but it feels good to be desired again.

It's not cheating so you have nothing to feel bad about. Just inform your sexless spouse then go meet your normal needs without guilt or worry.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I have not. But sexless going on a year, and sexual tension building with someone. I don’t want to cheat but it feels good to be desired again.

It's not cheating so you have nothing to feel bad about. Just inform your sexless spouse then go meet your normal needs without guilt or worry.

Oh hi, "Declare An Open Marriage" poster. It's been like 45 seconds since your last post.

[Anonymous]

What is your gender?