Jumping rhe Gun

[Anonymous]

I recently connected with a late 40s divorcee online. Our conversations were above board and we seemed to like each other. He said he wanted a committed relationship. He had been divorced for 2 years and had did a lot to heal and prepare for dating . . .

And bam, out of the blue comes a penis picture. Then another, and another from a different angle. Yes, he was blessed, and had received favorable gifts from the gods on high. Why, just why?

Little did he know, I am a high libido woman with no sexual hangups but damn. I am not looking to bed total strangers. Couldnt he just hold his thoughts for the first date at least?

[Anonymous]

Gross. At least you know what kind of guy he is before you wasted too much time on him.

[Anonymous]

I have received many of these, including one with a red bow tied on it. He was deleted immediately.

[Anonymous]

OP, this is a blessing. The penis pictures are blessings. They are immediate signs you just have to bypass that guy. I am a high libido woman, too. Mid-30's and divorced here. But this shows a lack of boundaries and consideration for what you may think or want. I think I've figured out that when a man says he wants a committed relationship but texts these kinds of pictures, it means he's full of crap. Not to be trusted. Isn't going to meet my emotional needs. And may not even meet my sexual needs.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP, this is a blessing. The penis pictures are blessings. They are immediate signs you just have to bypass that guy. I am a high libido woman, too. Mid-30's and divorced here. But this shows a lack of boundaries and consideration for what you may think or want. I think I've figured out that when a man says he wants a committed relationship but texts these kinds of pictures, it means he's full of crap. Not to be trusted. Isn't going to meet my emotional needs. And may not even meet my sexual needs.

And I want to add that this is classic "listen to what he does, not what he says" stuff. Any man who wants a serious, committed relationship isn't going to text you explicit pics before the first date. Or even a dozen after that.

[Anonymous]

Totally disgusting. Agree with the others saying it’s a good thing you found out now.

[Anonymous]

Perhaps he needs to take a little more time preparing for dating. I'd be a mix of surprised, slightly amused & yet turned off at the same time. Too much, too soon. I'd reply "Not a good fit."

[Anonymous]

I've heard from a few recently divorced friends that penis picks are pretty common. They literally passed around their phones and showed multiple pics.

Thank goodness I'm happily married. I don't think I could handle dating nowadays.

[Anonymous]

I am a guy and would never even consider sending someone a dick pic out of the blue. Who does that???!

[Anonymous]

We do it because it works, especially with younger women.

I'm 50s and have had many women send me fun photos.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am a guy and would never even consider sending someone a dick pic out of the blue. Who does that???!

Same

[Anonymous]

This has happened to me and I usually write back and say “you know, I probably would have slept with you on the first or second date assuming decent chemistry. But now after receiving that picture...no way.”

It leaves them wondering if it was because they sent the pic or what was in the pic.

[Anonymous]

Gross, and I'm not looking for a serious relationship and am interested in sex with someone I meet in person and click with. It's one thing if a guy asks if I want a picture and then respects my wishes when I say "NO!", but I find unsolicited pictures creepy and a sign of someone who won't understand respectful boundaries in a casual relationship.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We do it because it works, especially with younger women.

I'm 50s and have had many women send me fun photos.

OK I have to ask...what kind of pictures are men looking for? Boob pictures, or more explicit ones?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We do it because it works, especially with younger women.

I'm 50s and have had many women send me fun photos.

Its not the explicit photos, its the unsolicited ones. Dont send them unless asked.

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