long lost love
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Anonymous
| best friend from hs and i recently reconnected after many years apart and are talking constantly now. turns out each thought the other was unrequited love. communication is flirty, fun, intimate and deep. we live on opposite sides of country and each have a family now. where’s this headed? |
Anonymous
| Um. Nowhere! If you each have families it's a no. It's sweet to think back on the loves we had the loves we lost but you have both moved on with so much water under the bridge. Be flattered. Enjoy the memories and thoughts of love but neither of you are who you once were. Sorry OP it's not a long lost love story that you think it is. |
Anonymous
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Either you cut if off or you will have affairs. Frankly you are having emotional affairs already.
If it is helpful I empathize with your situation but this doesn’t end well unless you are both prepared to end your current marriages and be with each other. Even then it doesn’t end well for your kids or current spouses. Is it worth hurting them? Your post is in the lgbt thread. I am presuming that your current marriages are to the same gender as your hs friend is to you. If not this is a lot more complicated. |
Anonymous
I assumed the opposite. That OP was a woman married to a man, as is her bff from HS. |
Anonymous
| correct. well, i am woman in conventional marriage to man; former bff is openly queer, married but the marriage is open. signed, op |
Anonymous
op here. sorry, i meant to quote the PP just above. |
Anonymous
| The former BFF is in an open marriage? Be careful that you don't throw your life away to someone who views you as nothing more than a fling. |
Anonymous
the fact of an open marriage doesn't imply that other parties are mere flings. but, point considered, thanks. -op |
Anonymous
| OP I am jealous- I wish something like that would happen to me. I hope you do at least get to see each other and spend time together. |