Verbal abuse?

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[Post New]04/18/2018 22:45
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Anonymous
DW has subtle ways of putting me down. For instance, Being an accountant I have been busy lately. This is what she said tonight. “We need to get you a hair cut, new clothes, shoes and glasses so you are not so disgusting to the kids” she constantly manipulated like this. No one else complains about my looks. Sometimes wo
[Post New]04/18/2018 23:10
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Anonymous
Say no more. This woman is a stone cold b*tch. Get out, this is no way to live.
[Post New]04/18/2018 23:21
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Anonymous
lol The reason nobody else talks to you about it is because nobody else cares that you look disgusting. Get yourself together.
[Post New]04/18/2018 23:30
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Anonymous
I'd hate to read what she says when not being subtle. I'd be responding with "So you think I'm disgusting?"

What is with the "we need to get you..." part? I'm guessing you know when you need a hair cut, and will get around to it when things slow down.
[Post New]04/19/2018 00:08
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Say no more. This woman is a stone cold b*tch. Get out, this is no way to live.

Plus 1!
[Post New]04/19/2018 00:22
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Anonymous
Ouch. Painful delivery.
I am sorry you are being spoken to / treated like that.
We are only in control of our own actions. I hope your actions bring you to safety, support and peace (however you may find those - separation, mental armor, distance and space for you and children to bond more strongly, confidence to lead the life you feel right in or any combination).
[Post New]04/19/2018 00:25
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Anonymous
https://youtu.be/XOefJFb0_T8
[Post New]04/19/2018 00:28
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Anonymous
It's possible that she thinks she is being funny and teasing and doesn't realize that it upsets you. I would just talk to her about it and if she's decent human being, she'll knock it off.
[Post New]04/19/2018 05:45
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Anonymous
There are free legal services out there. Someone on the back this site may know.
[Post New]04/19/2018 06:11
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Anonymous
DTMFA.
[Post New]04/19/2018 07:02
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Anonymous
That’s not subtle. Tell her she’s never to speak to you like that again - that it has to stop, or you will not remain on the marriage. Don’t tolerate it.
[Post New]04/19/2018 07:04
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Say no more. This woman is a stone cold b*tch. Get out, this is no way to live.

Plus 1!


FFS, that is not okay!
[Post New]04/19/2018 07:48
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Anonymous
Translate that to "So you won't be so disgusting to ME." Get out, and spend as much time as you can with your kids, so they won't be the recipients of her vile mouth all the time. This is no way to live, OP.
[Post New]04/19/2018 08:27
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Anonymous
Easy fix. Next day off go get a new hair cut, glasses and outfit. Her idea of disgusting now fixed. Then approach all cleaned up with divorce papers. You can't fix ugly on the inside, which she is.
[Post New]04/19/2018 09:48
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Easy fix. Next day off go get a new hair cut, glasses and outfit. Her idea of disgusting now fixed. Then approach all cleaned up with divorce papers. You can't fix ugly on the inside, which she is.


This! I would never stay with someone who dreamed of speaking to me this way.
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