Am open Letter to my Soon To Be Ex

[Anonymous]

One day you will realize that it wasn't me; the only one who truly loved you, despite the drama and your ever-present lack of affection towards me.

It wasn't your APs either. Yes, the ones that treated you like a whore and dumped you once your drama became too much.

Nor your friends and family. You are the one who isolated yourself with them.

It is you.
You are selfish.
You never have enough, and are always looking for something better
You feel that the whole world is out to get you.
It isn't.

One day you will realize this. You will realize who those people are that stand by you irregardless of your drama and anger, the ones who still love you even though you have repeatedly crapped on them.


One day.
But I may no longer be there for you by then.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:
But I may no longer be there for you by then.

May?
Really?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:One day you will realize that it wasn't me; the only one who truly loved you, despite the drama and your ever-present lack of affection towards me.

It wasn't your APs either. Yes, the ones that treated you like a whore and dumped you once your drama became too much.

Nor your friends and family. You are the one who isolated yourself with them.

It is you.
You are selfish.
You never have enough, and are always looking for something better
You feel that the whole world is out to get you.
It isn't.

One day you will realize this. You will realize who those people are that stand by you irregardless of your drama and anger, the ones who still love you even though you have repeatedly crapped on them.


One day.
But I may no longer be there for you by then.

OP, you sound really hurt, and I am truly sorry about that.

But the bolded shows that you need to forget your ex and start asking yourself why you ended up with such a shitty person. You SURELY have some trauma/issues from your own background that landed you in this situation. Please examine that, and learn to make things different going forward. Who cares about this bish? You need to learn how to create the future and relationship dynamics you deserve.

[Anonymous]

Oh, the drama.

[Anonymous]

you will be outed for your use of irregardless

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:you will be outed for your use of irregardless

LOL

[Anonymous]

let go your hate

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:One day you will realize that it wasn't me; the only one who truly loved you, despite the drama and your ever-present lack of affection towards me.

It wasn't your APs either. Yes, the ones that treated you like a whore and dumped you once your drama became too much.

Nor your friends and family. You are the one who isolated yourself with them.

It is you.
You are selfish.
You never have enough, and are always looking for something better
You feel that the whole world is out to get you.
It isn't.

One day you will realize this. You will realize who those people are that stand by you irregardless of your drama and anger, the ones who still love you even though you have repeatedly crapped on them.


One day.
But I may no longer be there for you by then.

This could be from practically any man to any woman in the US. Very generic, yet true. Sucks OP, I’ve been there too. Work on yourself and forget her. You’ll come out ahead in life by playing the long-game.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:you will be outed for your use of irregardless

LOL

I thought the same thing when I read this. Of all things to offer during this time.. it boiled down to this. Sigh. I need to step away from this website.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:you will be outed for your use of irregardless

LOL

I thought the same thing when I read this. Of all things to offer during this time.. it boiled down to this. Sigh. I need to step away from this website.

Yeah, 'irregardless' and ''may' not be here' really stood out to me. If he's your soon to be ex, why WOULD you still be around to pick up the pieces?

[Anonymous]

OP, you’re hurting. It’s all STBX’s fault. Why do you care if he/she ever realizes anything? Move on from this and focus on what you can do to be healthy. Blame isn’t healthy. Ever. Even a negative connection to the past is still a connection that needs severing. Let it go, heal and move on. It is not your cross to carry anymore. You’re blaming your ex, and saying they are in this horrible spot as if they should be grateful for you. But if they’re in that bad of a place, and you’re still willing to be around, it says a lot about you and what you have lacking. I say this with the best of intention: look inward so you don’t repeat mistakes either. Good luck, and I’m sorry for your loss.

[Anonymous]

“But the bolded shows that you need to forget your ex and start asking yourself why you ended up with such a shitty person. You SURELY have some trauma/issues from your own background that landed you in this situation.“

x 2

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
But I may no longer be there for you by then.

May?
Really?

He loves her, alright!?!? /s

[Anonymous]

OP, are you male or female and was this a gay relationship?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:let go your hate

Writing a letter like this is one way to do that.