Men Would You Date..

[Anonymous]

Someone that is going back to school at 29 and won’t be finished with her degree until 35/36? Single and worried about finding a guy who will understand my situation, but I know I am doing what’s best for my future. It will be a good job at the end making $150-200k. Got into a so so job at a young age that I just don’t love. Always had a passion for this career field and finally said “ WTH. I am going to do it.”. Men would this be a turnoff or a turn on considering age of starting new career at 35/36.

[Anonymous]

There needs to be a comma up there after Men. I thought this was going to be about men we would date. But it's completely the opposite.

[Anonymous]

What kind of debt will you be in?

[Anonymous]

Men will date anyone who they think is attractive and fun; whether he will have a serious relationship with you is a different question. Career changes are t so crazy in your mid thirties, but how much debt would you take on? Do you intend to start a family? Those things matter, at least to men with sense.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What kind of debt will you be in?

None to maybe $40-50k. Most will be paid out of my own pocket.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Men will date anyone who they think is attractive and fun; whether he will have a serious relationship with you is a different question. Career changes are t so crazy in your mid thirties, but how much debt would you take on? Do you intend to start a family? Those things matter, at least to men with sense.

Op here. I am asking about serious relationships, not casual. I will paying mostly out of pocket, and do not expect that he will handle any of my incurred debt. I come from a big family and absolutely want kids ( 1-2).

[Anonymous]

This is something that most guys don't care about at all.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is something that most guys don't care about at all.

Not true. I personally wouldn’t because I would expect a mature adult that has their life figured out.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Men will date anyone who they think is attractive and fun; whether he will have a serious relationship with you is a different question. Career changes are t so crazy in your mid thirties, but how much debt would you take on? Do you intend to start a family? Those things matter, at least to men with sense.

Op here. I am asking about serious relationships, not casual. I will paying mostly out of pocket, and do not expect that he will handle any of my incurred debt. I come from a big family and absolutely want kids ( 1-2).

Eh, some guys will be ok with this, assuming you’re attractive and fun. The problem is you’re competing with women who already have established careers making bank and women who have so so jobs, but not a lot of debt and are ready willing and able to be a SAHM. It’ll really depend on timing of who you meet. Would you date a guy doing the same thing you are?

[Anonymous]

Do what you want. I didn't pursue a particular career because of a man, who is long gone. I regret not pursuing my dream. So what if you take a loan? You'll pay it back. YOLO

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Men will date anyone who they think is attractive and fun; whether he will have a serious relationship with you is a different question. Career changes are t so crazy in your mid thirties, but how much debt would you take on? Do you intend to start a family? Those things matter, at least to men with sense.

Op here. I am asking about serious relationships, not casual. I will paying mostly out of pocket, and do not expect that he will handle any of my incurred debt. I come from a big family and absolutely want kids ( 1-2).

Eh, some guys will be ok with this, assuming you’re attractive and fun. The problem is you’re competing with women who already have established careers making bank and women who have so so jobs, but not a lot of debt and are ready willing and able to be a SAHM. It’ll really depend on timing of who you meet. Would you date a guy doing the same thing you are?

Op here. I am open to dating an established man or a man that is doing the same as me. It all depends on how much I like him. I don’t have any crazy expectations.

[Anonymous]

No. I prefer a SAHM.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is something that most guys don't care about at all.

Not true. I personally wouldn’t because I would expect a mature adult that has their life figured out.

She has her life figured out. She is going back to school and paying for it. Go away.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No. I prefer a SAHM.

Barf.

[Anonymous]

You’re only 29. Still young to accomplish things. Go get the degree and worry about a man and having kids after. You will be happier and that will make a better suitor. Don’t give up on your dream because you don’t think a guy will accept it. To hell with him if he doesn’t. I assure you that you will happy once you complete your degree. 20 years from now you will be happpier you did it. Go for it and don’t worry. Make yourself happy!