Anonymous wrote:Homeschooling does offer a potential solution. It avoids the neurosis exhibited here by some parents focused so more on why other parents and pupils make the choices they make for kindergarten placement rather than the focus on their own children--when at least all children within a family 6,7, and 8 year-olds would be viewed as precious regardless of their ages and regardless of which child my have the fatest 50 free in swimming, quickest at arithematics facts or better reader.
Posts like this always make me wonder whether homeschoolers realize that kids who go to school also have homes where, in fact, their parents love them just as much as homeschooling parents love their kids. It's not as if a parent's love is contingent on grades and trophies earned (and if you were the sort of parent for whom that were the case, then stay home. keep your kids there too, and give your own grades and trophies would hardly be the solution).
Yes, I know homeschoolers get out and participate in sports, honor orchestras, etc. But that supports my point rather than undermines it. Allowing your kids to compete with other kids in a context where authority figures don't necessarily love them doesn't inherently change your relationship to your kids.
So the question becomes where and for whom is competition problematic and where is it useful. And, of course, even if the answer is competition undermines learning, that's not necessarily an argument against school. It could be an argument for choosing a particular type of school in preference to another (for a particular environment). That's what all the conversations about "fit" are about. It's also not inherently an argument for homeschooling. Ever heard of sibling rivalry?
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