Jen Hatmaker

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Jen totally uses shame as a parenting tactic on her children. Public shaming no less. It’s not funny or cute.

And then goes on record in her stories about how folks should run in the opposite from anyone who uses shame to manipulate and control you (while talking about the Shiny Happy People docu).

She should get some self awareness.

[Anonymous]

Total shaming, I agree. I feel like she resents Ben and especially Remy. If it werent for them still living there/coming home from college, she could live the wild life with her fake boyfriend. The whole roommate, paying the mortgage, my parking spot is cringey and quite frankly not normal! She thinks so much that shes the cutest, greatest, most fun, most creative person on the planet. Instead, she’s a desperate, grifting, shameful, non maternal human being. She needs to get off social media and do some intense therapy with a true therapist.

[Anonymous]

She seems manic in her new deodorant post. And her overbleached-right-to-the-roots hair look harsh, unflattering and outdated.

[Anonymous]

I think she got extensions . If she’s going through menopause like a lot of us, her hair is thinning.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Her attitude toward Caleb is a disgrace. She has brought him up to be a grown up brat who thinks rules are for other people. A DUI is a serious thing, drunk driving kills people, and no one thinks it's funny. They behave like a trashy family that you would not want for neighbors. Also, there does seem to be a lot more slack given to some kids than others.

It is also strange and callous considering Hatmaker drunk antics caused the death of a close family friend.

Truly base.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I just pray that Remy is safe and will continue to be so. She’s already experienced so much trauma in her life. Then I can’t imagine being a black girl in Texas is easy. Jen constantly blasting Remy’s vulnerabilities online disgusts me. Shame on Brandon for allowing it to happen as well.

The odds are already so stacked against Remy. Why the EFF would a supposedly loving mother who’s chirped on and on about trauma over the last years be so at EASE tearing down this poor child publicly? Not only is it terrible for her self-confidence (self-confidence can help keep us safe from those who want to take advantage of us), it’s also terrible that she repeatedly puts a target on her daughter’s back. Like “Hey world and all it’s predators! Look how gullible, needy and stunted my GORGEOUS underage daughter is!”

Are you effing kidding me???? And she holds herself up as some sort of authority on compassion, parenting and trauma? 🖕🏾

This is ALL because, Jen is a narcissist, plain and simple. Narcissists need their scapegoat, and narcissist parents will always have a scapegoat child. That is Remy here. There is no true self-reflection or self-awareness on Jen's part. She is always simlutaneously the ultimate victim and the ultimate "winner." She has fits of narcissistic rage (see the Scrabble example, among others). The lack of empathy is apparent. Making everything about Jen. Grandiosity. It's all there, in plain sight.

[Anonymous]

omg, the gum - - - -

make it make sense

[Anonymous]

has this woman never been to jury duty before?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:omg, the gum - - - -

make it make sense

I know. It’s so bizarre! She is the definition of cringe

[Anonymous]

Can she be any more obnoxious with the gum smacking?! Why would you not take it out of your mouth when doing a video? Gross.

[Anonymous]

Congratulations to Gavin H. He’s gotten engaged it looks like.

[Anonymous]

Seems like she’s giving extended times and discounts for her Me Courses more often. Guessing because less and less people are tuning in.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Can she be any more obnoxious with the gum smacking?! Why would you not take it out of your mouth when doing a video? Gross.

I know!!! Can’t one of her “beloveds” tell her how disgusting and trashy it makes her sound and tell her to stop already.

[Anonymous]

I think she did the gum smacking again on purpose. Someone probably messaged her the last time and told her it was gross / tacky. I could see her doubling down and smacking it even more obnoxiously just to thumb her nose at the complainers

[Anonymous]

Jens got real big manic, negative, critical, desperate energy these days. It’s uncomfortable to witness and she increasingly isn’t able to hide it.

Big Sis really needs to to chill out and decompress.