How long do you wait to see if couples therapy works?
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Anonymous
| How do you know when to stop? |
Anonymous
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If it’s for infidelity don’t bother. Otherwise it depends on how committed you both are to making it work. |
Anonymous
| not infidelity. emotional abuse and overall toxicity. DH is interested in showing up for sessions but i don't know how long i have it in me to wait for results. |
Anonymous
| Who picked the therapist? |
Anonymous
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We agreed after the fourth session that we both felt it was helpful.
1st - giving history/background 2nd - one person airing grievances 3rd - other airing theres 4th - actually listening to each other and compromising starts |