Boyfriend's mom gift?
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Anonymous
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Hope this isn't a dumb question. I'm in my first serious relationship and we're at 8 months. At this point I have a pretty good relationship with my boyfriend's local family and see them about twice a month. I'd like to get something at least for his mother who is great but there's a language barrier between us so I haven't been able to get to know her as well as I like.
I love giving gifts, I'm not really worried about picking something out for her (ideas certainly welcome though) but just want to make sure it's not weird. Maybe it would be best to stick to Christmas treats or a card or something? |
Anonymous
| OP again wanted to add she got me a lovely, thoughtful, and useful gift from a trip abroad this summer so another reason why I think I should give her a gift!! |
Anonymous
| My sense is no gift at this stage. I think a card with an original heartfelt sentiment written inside would be nice. You say there is a language issue but the family can translate if necessary. Maybe a small box of chocolates to accompany the card. Thank you for being thoughtful of others. |
Anonymous
| Something consumable is good at this stage. A nice box of candy or fancy nuts/dried fruit. |
Anonymous
Agree with this. Keep it small. It’s the sentiment not the value that matters. |
Anonymous
| Something consumable. Nice hand lotion or soap for guest bathroom. Holiday decorations. |
Anonymous
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An orchid.
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Anonymous
| Ask your BF what she'd like. |
Anonymous
| No card! Under $20. Play the king game- when she's your MIL you can buy her gifts whenever you want. |
Anonymous
Long* game |
Anonymous
This. Don't take on wifely duties when you're only a girlfriend. Presents for family are for when you're married. |