Clueless |
Agree; totally clueless. Different model. |
Sorry your kid wasn’t good enough to play at an Ivy. |
Most of the 2026 Cap Orange Team is committed to D1 or NESCAC. The girls who did not commit do not want to play in college. |
This is a 2028 board clown... |
I agree with all of this EXCEPT - please stop acting like they are affordable to middle class americans. Most people make to much to get anything need based but not enough to afford $90K a year. Frankly, this comment from posters like you simply make you sound out of touch. |
This is a terrible point as well. MANY turn down IVY for NESCAC even without sports so why would they not for sports? Why commit to work at a D1 level when you can go to an equal level academic school and have more time for yourself to study abroad etc? |
Fair enough. To your general point: good friend from college just went through the process. Kid got some aid, but only enough to make it very difficult to pay anyway. Like out of state at a top public university. They aren’t wealthy. But daughter still going. |
Not equal academically. Most people couldn’t name two NESCAC schools. |
You know who can? Every recruiting director at every Wall St. bank and major consultancy, and every admissions director at every good law, business, and medical school. But this digression has gone on long enough. |
How are people looking forward to the big recruiting year? Trusting the tournaments with club teams option? What about showcases? Are clubs supporting your players in applying? On campus prospect camps? How do you narrow your list if you can only go to 3-4 camps (reach, two targets, and a safety?)? Lots of hard questions. Any parents of older parents want to weigh in? |
It is really important to play well during the fall 2025 season and show well as a team and team player. Coaches will make those preliminary lists from what they see at fall tournaments. Go to fall/winter prospect days to a couple of reach and target specific schools. Where have players from your club been recruited? Look to see the past 4-5 years of history club recruitment results—how does your daughter match up with those players. The recruiting coordinator and club coach can give feedback on what schools to target as well. You do not need showcases to get recruited but you do need to show well at tourneys and prospect camps. |
This person has no idea what they are talking about |
100% |
$90k is a stretch even for people who are in the top 1% |