Dd almost texted ex a nude photo from my phone
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Anonymous
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Holy sh**! We get older and still have to learn some lessons the hard way. I left a bad marriage and started dating. I usually don't send nude photos, but sometimes get caught up in a good thing and might send a couple boob shots when asked. Dd is 5 and ex and I both let her message the other emojis from time to time. It is like an older child being able to communicate with the other parent when it is not that parent's day. She has her own tablet and her own account (to keep my stuff separate), which she normally texts him from. Something updated this week in the app I use and all of a sudden, she could just scroll through all my photos. I left a couple of pictures on there from a few days ago, and she pointed out she wanted to text her dad a picture of her playing with a friend I took 1-2 weeks ago. I only handed her the phone because we made a quick run down the street and she took it from me to play a song. Stupid, stupid me. I know we say smart people don't take them, don't send them, surely remember to delete them, and certainly don't hand their kids their phones. She might have thought, "That is a funny picture of mommy's boobies, daddy will think that is funny, too!"
I know, I know. There are going to be some haters about the nudes and about why my 5 year old can use electronic devices. It is really great when he sends her "Hi" or "I love you" and she can read it. And me and family help her text him back, "I love you, too." But flame away, because apparently I am an idiot. |
Anonymous
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A. Lock your damned phone.
B. Keep your nudies on a private phone or not on it at all. I have no problem with your DD using a phone, just a parent that doesn't seem smart enough to police their own. |
Anonymous
| You send boob shots because you were asked? Umm ok... |
Anonymous
I unlocked the phone so she could play a song over bluetooth in the car. She normally can play songs in the car on her tablet. I haven' let her use my phone in 9 months. Yep, after that, no more nude photos. Forget it, guys. Either find internet porn or show up at my apt with flowers. |
Anonymous
Both times were dating situations for several months and both times we were separated for awhile due to work travel. Not just to every Tom, Dick and Harry! |
Anonymous
| Every picture on your devices should be something you are ok with going on social media or sent to your boss, colleagues or mother or ex. |
Anonymous
Right... |
Anonymous
grow up |
Anonymous
| Ew |
Anonymous
| I send boob shots too! I hsve a great rack and I will have lasting memories of this spectacular rack when the tits hit the floor one dsy. |
Anonymous
Yeah, this is a deal breaker. Stop doing this. |
Anonymous
| How do you feel about your exes having those pictures now? |
Anonymous
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Are you not familiar with Snapchat?
You must be quite old. |
Anonymous
| Naked pics are fun for everyone, but download a vault app like Keepsafe to store those pics separately, password-protected. |
Anonymous
| Nude pix are fine between consenting adults, in my point of view! Like PP mentioned, you can download an app where you can store those photos separately (and password protect them). I don't see what the big deal is here, except that you nearly dodged a bullet. |