Crazy married folks . . .the stories they tell.

[Anonymous]

Here goes:

I didn't like the way my wife parented our toddler son, so I had a vasectomy. She was very upset at the prospect of not having another child.--Still Married

My husband, with a law degree from a prestigious school didn't work during our 10 year marriage. --Divorced, ex-husband practices law currently.

[Anonymous]

Thanks for coming in today. What's your point?

[Anonymous]

I don't understand

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Thanks for coming in today. What's your point?

So, you must have a similar personal story. Do, tell.

[Anonymous]

Two couples who never consumated the marriage on their wedding nights... or thereafter. But they acted like everything was ok. Had sex before marriage, never had it again. We heard of other developing problems in the marriages but never this until they were divorcing... When the social circle heard this we were like 'why did u stay together??? Why did you waste our time with the other issues when if you'd told us this we would have told you to run screaming!'

One friend who always complained about her lack of sex life. I tried to help her figure why she wasn't into it. Months later I went to use the bathroom when I was upstairs in their home. She directed me toward another bathroom stating she only uses the master as the other one is his and its disgusting. I went to see for myself and- there was pee stains and grime all over. I told her I don't think I'd ever be able to get with him if he was my man and couldn't even aim his dong. She said 'OMG that's it!' They are now in marital counseling.

Several friends who complained about their marriage. They picked and chose what info to share- made themselves out to be victims- later found out they were having affairs. I pointedly said "you don't have to tell me anything, but if you are going to ask our advice, lying about what you tell us makes our advice invalid". Ie it's not 'poor you' when you are the one destroying your marriage with cheating- no matter how bad your partner is.

Several friends with amicable divorces. Later the spouse remarried someone of the same sex. Oh, to be a fly on the wall. I'm not close enough to ask details/it's none of my business but wow.

[Anonymous]

I heard one the other day - the DH won't give his wife the passwords to their online financial accounts. Ones that SHE contributes to! No f*cking way.

[Anonymous]

bil, now that I am married I will never do laundry again.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Two couples who never consumated the marriage on their wedding nights... or thereafter. But they acted like everything was ok. Had sex before marriage, never had it again. We heard of other developing problems in the marriages but never this until they were divorcing... When the social circle heard this we were like 'why did u stay together??? Why did you waste our time with the other issues when if you'd told us this we would have told you to run screaming!'

One friend who always complained about her lack of sex life. I tried to help her figure why she wasn't into it. Months later I went to use the bathroom when I was upstairs in their home. She directed me toward another bathroom stating she only uses the master as the other one is his and its disgusting. I went to see for myself and- there was pee stains and grime all over. I told her I don't think I'd ever be able to get with him if he was my man and couldn't even aim his dong. She said 'OMG that's it!' They are now in marital counseling.

Several friends who complained about their marriage. They picked and chose what info to share- made themselves out to be victims- later found out they were having affairs. I pointedly said "you don't have to tell me anything, but if you are going to ask our advice, lying about what you tell us makes our advice invalid". Ie it's not 'poor you' when you are the one destroying your marriage with cheating- no matter how bad your partner is.

Several friends with amicable divorces. Later the spouse remarried someone of the same sex. Oh, to be a fly on the wall. I'm not close enough to ask details/it's none of my business but wow.

Ah ... why would anybody share that? I mean, unless you are very very very very close. Seems weird that you'd know at all.

[Anonymous]

Crazy married person here. I don't tell stories. I tell the truth. My reality may be slightly different from yours, though.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Crazy married person here. I don't tell stories. I tell the truth. My reality may be slightly different from yours, though.[/quote

Go back to your corner.

[Anonymous]

I am pretty confused by this thread and what exactly you're getting at

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am pretty confused by this thread and what exactly you're getting at

You posted that earlier.

[Anonymous]

This thread is great>

I want to hear more crazy shit out of married folk. They're freak shows, certainly.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I heard one the other day - the DH won't give his wife the passwords to their online financial accounts. Ones that SHE contributes to! No f*cking way.

My DH keeps trying to pull this. When I refuse, he just says "see I can't give you access because this is just another sign that you're selfish and I don't feel safe!" Yea, okay

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I heard one the other day - the DH won't give his wife the passwords to their online financial accounts. Ones that SHE contributes to! No f*cking way.

My DH keeps trying to pull this. When I refuse, he just says "see I can't give you access because this is just another sign that you're selfish and I don't feel safe!" Yea, okay

I would be diverting my money into new accounts (at a different bank) in my name only immediately. Go to HR/payroll today.

Sincerely,

A woman whose exhusband stole/lost all the money.