Jen Hatmaker
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Anonymous
| Why does she always whisper in her videos? It's so distracting. Is she bothering someone? Why does she act like she needs to keep her voice down? Just talk normal please! |
Anonymous
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Good for Remy for telling her no filming, especially since she pre-empted and followed the request with shit talking about Remy.
Also, she touched her hair like 40x in those stories. Why does she fidget like that??? |
Anonymous
| She didn’t say anything negative until AFTER she was told no filming. Then she used 3 stories to disparage Remy and talk about her own savior stories on prom. Also note that she has to let it be know that she attended prom 2 years. 🙄 |
Anonymous
She’s ticked because she wanted to use Remy’s prom for content, and when Remy said no, she came up with a word vomit of passive aggressive stuff dissing Remy, and then wandered off into a bunch of disjointed ramblings to try and fill the space. |
Anonymous
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I also wonder at how "actual money" is not ever mentioned, anywhere. Just that everything is great to buy, and I can save money with her code. There is a definite class distinction that comes up, and it makes me polarize against her based on my own circumstances. For example, it was not mentioned in the "pay for the prom kids dinner" how much an actual dinner might cost. "Just do it! Help those kids!" But I don't have, what, $70, $100, $125 to help them.That's a week of groceries for me, sale items included . Right? Like, real numbers! She dialed it down then, saying, oh just pay for their dessert. But I am losing patience with this constant feeling that I need to spend/consume/treat myself in order to be what? In her good graces? To be happier?
The recent pitch about the cruise felt like this . She pitches it like "you need to throw caution to the wind, let go, live, be bold and wild!" but it absolutely is something many women cannot afford. She acts like committing to her cruise represents self-love and growth. That's gross. |
Anonymous
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As others have said, she’s a salesperson. She would tell you that the cruise cures blindness if she wouldn’t get sued.
Unfortunately she’s not a good salesperson (anymore). A good salesperson shouldn’t make you feel gross about the products and the seller. Jen is so clearly unhappy with her life. Remember Remy not only ”causes” challenges for Jen’s dreams of having Tyler (or some other new man) move in, Remy also represents a youthful beauty and vitality that Jen will never have again. A beautiful teenage daughter is often a narc mom’s greatest “threat”. Since Jen couldn’t capitalize on Remy’s beauty for herself, she lashed out. |
Anonymous
| I’ve had an awful year and desperately need an affordable mindless tropical getaway. However, it will be alone or with an actual friend or family member rather than a cruise with random people. I would go on a women’s tour of Machi Picchu or something I might be intimidated to do without a guide, but trying to “find my tribe” at the buffet and drunkenly yell “woo” at lame shows sounds awful. |
Anonymous
So gross and weird. If it’s “not your problem” why are you posting at all? Just let your child learn from their time management challenges in peace. Some of the most successful adults I know still struggle with this. And I wonder if Remy even wants a “glam squad.” |
Anonymous
| I bet Jen hates that Remi’s prom was last night because it takes the focus off of her weekend for Mother’s Day |
Anonymous
I bet she hates she had an entire happy happy cool cool post/video planned for the last two months on Remy’s prom night to tie in with Mother’s Day celebrating OMG last prom kid how did this happen so fast mama’s hold on to these moments. When that didn’t happen, it left her without anything to do or say but improvise. Which then became resentful anger shaming/slamming Remy due to her lost preplanned content to pull mom heartstrings while propagating her whole I’m a mom like you. Before her next empty nest moms go on my cruise/buy my boots/wear bright red $35 lipstick/join my book club/subscribe to my podcast and you’ll feel better (all the while $$$$ cashing in on women she doesn’t give a F about). Sorry, I’m just a tiny bit cynical. |
Anonymous
Sounds about right to me. This is her “business model”. It’s gross and predatory and late stage capitalism at its saddest and most exploitive. No wonder she’s such a mess. |
Anonymous
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So when she asked her daughter if she could film her for content, her own daughter decided to set boundaries and said no so then Jen took it upon herself to shame her daughter. I’m no Me Course fake therapist but I think that’s what emotional abuse looks like.
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Anonymous
| Did she ever post the final picture of Remy (who I’m sure looked amazing, as always)? Jen had said in the video that she had not gotten permission to post any prom-prep footage, but that she had been given the green-light to post a finished-product photo, which was to come. But it never came. Something probably went down. 😬 Seems like if the night had been awesome, Jen would have done some photo-bragging and restaurant-bragging. Her M.O. seems to be to just go silent when unable to fabricate fabulousness. Hope Remy’s okay, whatever the stressors were. |
Anonymous
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Did Jen ever disclose the financial arrangement she made with her therapist for their MeCourse content?
It's absolutely insane that they believe they can get away with this. What sort of client-therapist relationship allows for mutually beneficial financial side deals? But Jen is the most ethical and most pure and dear person ever just ask her so I am sure this is all on the up and up. |
Anonymous
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We should send in a spy to the MeCruise and report back on the sadness and desperation and predatory exploitation. I nominate Anonymous.
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