I think I picked the wrong guy
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I think I picked the wrong guy when I was 25 and so unsure of myself. I was so insecurity and felt unworthy of love that I picked the first guy that showed me any sort of attention. I knew he was sort of aloof and immature but I thought that's good. If he knew better he wouldn't want me!
5 years later I feel like I settled. I want a guy that impresses me and inspires me. I find I have to guide my BF through life and it is tiresome. I'm not learning anything new or feeling particularly enriched. |
Anonymous
| So, what? Don't be a loser. Break it off and move on. |
Anonymous
| 5 years later and he's still your boyfriend? He does sound immature. |
Anonymous
| He's a boyfriend, not a life sentence. If you don't want to be with him, break up. |
taketothebank
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What will be 5 years from now? |
Anonymous
| What do you do to inspire and impress him? |
Anonymous
I want Jennifer Lawrence. But I don't think I can make that happen. Make it happen, or don't complain that he's not riding up to your front door on a unicorn. Or settle. |
Anonymous
| If he's still your BF after 5 years, dump him and do better. |
Anonymous
| You're 30. If you want kids, it's time to fish or cut bait. |
Anonymous
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Why would you waste 5 years and he's still a bf?
After a few years you either dump them or get married. Didn't mamma teach you that? |
Anonymous
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Anonymous
| No, you didn't "pick" the wrong guy. For the last 5 years you have dated the wrong guy. This is so easily rectified. |
Anonymous
| Cut him loose and try again if it doesn't work I'm sure he'll take you back |
Anonymous
| I don't see the problem here. Break up and move on if you're not happy. You ARE allowed to do that, you know. |
Anonymous
| Break up |