depressed...

[Anonymous]

i am feeling extremely discouraged lately. getting ready for a third IVF this fall (hopefully). we miscarried exactly a year ago, and i still am not over it. no matter what anyone says i keep (secretly) blaming myself. i'm so moody and sensitive & i pretend to be happy about starting a new cycle, but really am feeling so anxious and depressed, and worried for another failure. why so negative?? i should be thinking/feeling positive....
seems like everytime i turn around another friend is pregnant.



help?

[Anonymous]

My dear friend is now pregant after a miscarriage two years ago. It took her two years from miscarriage to get pregnant and it has been a journey for her. What seemed to work for her is that she changed fertility clinics due to an insurance change. Initially she was nervous about the change but then low and behold she got pregnant the first time after going to the new place. She feels she got better treatment and that was the trick and she didn't know her treatment prior wasn't great until she went to the new place. She also changed her diet and started regular acupuncture. I hope this gives you some encouragement and maybe food for thought as maybe you need to change up your docs. Oh..friend is 40 and is using her own eggs. Good luck to you!!

[Anonymous]

thank you, yes we are changing doctors....
hopefully will have better luck.
sometimes just need to vent. thx again....

[Anonymous]

Big hug.

[Anonymous]

20:58, not to be nousy but I'm in the same position as your friend. Do you mind sharing which fertility clinic she went to? Thanks.

And OP, another big hug!

[Anonymous]

I changed docs and got pregnant on my 3rd IVF. There is hope....but it's a long road.