where do all the financially insecure, unmotivated guys hang out?

[Anonymous]

I am asking for a friend. She is ivy educated and does not want to compete with her man. She wants a sahd who likes video games and drinking beer with his friends in the basement. Her only requirement is that he is smart and hot. She doesn't want stupid kids.

[Anonymous]

DCUM

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am asking for a friend. She is ivy educated and does not want to compete with her man. She wants a sahd who likes video games and drinking beer with his friends in the basement. Her only requirement is that he is smart and hot. She doesn't want stupid kids.

OMG, I didn't know I'd achieved someone else's dream.

He ghosted though. He wanted video games and drinking beers with his friends on the beach instead of in the basement, and without the parenting duties.

Those guys all hang out in Pacific Beach, CA.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am asking for a friend. She is ivy educated and does not want to compete with her man. She wants a sahd who likes video games and drinking beer with his friends in the basement. Her only requirement is that he is smart and hot. She doesn't want stupid kids.

I'm smart and hot but I don't play video games and I don't drink much beer these days.

She snagged me when we were seniors in college.

[Anonymous]

The beach (California), the mountains (Colorado), and Burning Man. I'm serious.

[Anonymous]

Bars. Not the nice ones. Or each other's couches. Or on porn sites.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Bars. Not the nice ones. Or each other's couches. Or on porn sites.

This is what I was going to say.

[Anonymous]

Williamsburg, Brooklyn. Some guys from there come from wealthy families and have trust funds, though.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Bars. Not the nice ones. Or each other's couches. Or on porn sites.

Smart, motivated, successful men also watch porn, all men do. Except your DH, of course, he is the exception.

[Anonymous]

Baltimore circuit court! Tons of them there as witnesses, defendants, you name it!

(signed, a juror just finished with a trial and disgusted by everything about Baltimore City at the moment. Would move if it wouldn't triple my mortgage.)

[Anonymous]

In garages playing bass in their band that is totally going to be discovered next week, and that's why it's not worth putting effort into the day job.

- BTDT

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Bars. Not the nice ones. Or each other's couches. Or on porn sites.

Smart, motivated, successful men also watch porn, all men do. Except your DH, of course, he is the exception.

Porn sites not so much. I end up buying the DVD or blueray..... got to support the artists in their work right

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:In garages playing bass in their band that is totally going to be discovered next week, and that's why it's not worth putting effort into the day job.

- BTDT

Like this guy? Because I would love to meet an unmarried version of him:
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=FmWp-rI6vSw

[Anonymous]

The house I just moved out of.

[Anonymous]

I have friends married to some of them. They actually make good fathers and take care of the home. They are all VERY intelligent but are misanthropes. They cook well too but generally let themselves go.