Confused 40 Year Male

[Anonymous]

First of all, I am sorry if i offend anybody as i am straight and has limited knowledge about LGBT people. It is very sensitive issue for me and just having a weird Identity crisis.
I am 40 year old male by birth. So far, I am straight. I like girls. But i am also so jealous of them. I really wish i were born as Girl. I wish i can dress like girl. Have boobs. Wax all over my body as i can not bear hair on my body. But here is other thing, I don't like boys. I can't even bear the thought kissing a boy or even touching them. Seeing them naked wants me to puke. But here is another thing, I like girls but when i come to know somebody is lesbian, I like them so much. I really arose me even the thought of it.
Can anybody help or explain what is going on with me ?

[Anonymous]

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[Anonymous]

I think you should spend a LOT of time bottoming for various guys, so that you can get a better appreciation for a feminine role. Don't worry about seeing them, you can keep the lights off. But it's important that you feel sex in receptive role, as a woman would feel it, to better understand the nature of your feelings.

[Anonymous]

Really you are just confused that you are 40 year old man when really you are a 12 year old boy. Ask Mom to drop you at mall. There's new movies out today, too.

[Anonymous]

"08/12/2017 10:54": I think you have some anger issues toward men.

NP: I generally dislike body hair as well, but I'm otherwise fine being male.

OP: Is your jealously based on a feeling that girls get more love and attention for being cute and pretty, and you want to be desired like that? or do you think you are "gender fluid."

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:"08/12/2017 10:54": I think you have some anger issues toward men.

NP: I generally dislike body hair as well, but I'm otherwise fine being male.

OP: Is your jealously based on a feeling that girls get more love and attention for being cute and pretty, and you want to be desired like that? or do you think you are "gender fluid."

OP Here: I think Jealousy. Thanks.

[Anonymous]

It sounds like you're basically hetero with some resentment toward women. You probably perceive them as having certain advantages that you don't have. Maybe you had women in your life who seemed to get away with things or get a lot of positive attention that you didn't get.

All I can say is that this sort of thing cuts both ways. Plenty of women think that men have it made. There are probably downsides to being a woman that you don't really give much consideration to.

[Anonymous]

I don't know any 40 year old men who still refer to females as "girls"

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think you should spend a LOT of time bottoming for various guys, so that you can get a better appreciation for a feminine role. Don't worry about seeing them, you can keep the lights off. But it's important that you feel sex in receptive role, as a woman would feel it, to better understand the nature of your feelings.

+1

Definitely. Tom Ford said the same thing and I think that's a key aspect of femininity that you need to understand before you can claim to have an idea about femininity

[Anonymous]

Sounds like this is more of a fetish to you. You get turned on by the idea of being a hot teenage girl. Newsflash: you will never, ever, ever be a hot teenage girl, or a hot young adult lesbian woman. In fact you will never be a hot lesbian woman, because people will always be able to tell.

I think you need to give yourself a reality check. Being a woman is not just shaving your legs, dressing in miniskirts, and feeling yourself up. There's many aspects of being a woman that are very difficult, VERY unglamorous, very hard.

And, to be real, lesbians are never going to be interested in boning someone with a... boner. That's kind of the definition of lesbianism. Perhaps you could pick up some bi women, but they would have to be interested in males either way

[Anonymous]

Obviously you're a lesbian.