Have the hots for a old college friend: Could it work?
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Anonymous
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Quick details:
Im 28, he will be 30 in a few months We recently ran into each other during a Las Vegas trip, and have been keeping contact through social media and text I find him attractive with a cool personality. Is smart, accomplished, from my culture, and we have great convo He finds me attractive and easy to talk too We recently talked about relationships. Hes not ready to settle down right now cause he was in a long term relationship most of his doctorate program He also labeled me a good girl, and right now couldnt be faithful. I dont mind being friends, but cant help my attraction towards him. Keep it to myself and move on? Should I just keep it at associates? Should I tell him how I feel? Brutal honesty appreciated! |
Anonymous
| He's not in to you. Sorry. |
Anonymous
op here. yea i figured. thanks for feedback. |
Anonymous
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Sorry, OP keep your distance.
He would bring you nothing but pain, the type to give you just enough so you would be having sex, but never the relationship you want. Let him go and find a guy who is crazy about you. He's out there and you'll see him once you let this one go. |
Anonymous
| You can change him. The foundation is there for you two to be soulmates. |
Anonymous
+1. But there's only one way to tell if you are soulmates. |
Anonymous
| insert tab A into slot B repeatedly. enjoy the ride, and move on... |
Anonymous
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He still has some wild oats he wants to sow.
At least he was upfront + honest. |