Did he cheat?

[Anonymous]

About a year ago I became suspicious that DH was had an affair. He denied it, and I believed him. Just recently, I found some emails between he and another woman. Her emails were very suggestive, and asked him to meet with her. He confessed to the emails and told me that he did meet with her, but nothing happened. Am I being completely naive to believe him?

[Anonymous]

Yes you are.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:About a year ago I became suspicious that DH was had an affair. He denied it, and I believed him. Just recently, I found some emails between he and another woman. Her emails were very suggestive, and asked him to meet with her. He confessed to the emails and told me that he did meet with her, but nothing happened. Am I being completely naive to believe him?

Yeap, naïve. Do you honestly think just out of the blue that he would fess up to it? How did you "find" the emails? Listen to your gut.

[Anonymous]

He cheated.
I always think I could forgive cheating if they confessed to it or admitted to it when confronted, but to lie when confronted not good.

[Anonymous]

Ask her, you have her email address!

[Anonymous]

He cheated.

[Anonymous]

Of course he cheated.

[Anonymous]

Yep.

[Anonymous]

But his father swears to me that he is a good guy and would never cheat...

[Anonymous]

Regardless of whether or not penis got stuck into vagina, he still went to meet with someone who was suggesting sex.

How would he feel if you went to lunch with someone offering to give you the org@sm of your life. But you don't actually do anything. In any world, how is that okay?

[Anonymous]

Yes. He cheated. He's making a half-admission and hoping you'll forget about it.

[Anonymous]

Of course he did. I'm really sorry.

[Anonymous]

He definitely did. I'm sorry, you deserve better. And he's taking advantage of your trusting nature

[Anonymous]

The question is, what are you going to do about it?

[Anonymous]

He admitted he met her, the whole truth ihas got to be so much worse than that!