Your ex-husbands girlfriend

[Anonymous]

Inspired by the thread about your husbands ex-girlfriends I thought I'd start this thread.

I'll start- his current girlfriend looks much older than him (he's 45), very pale, blonde, Eastern European looking. Nice body, not very attractive in the face. I haven't met her, only seen pictures, so I don't know what she's like.

I'm olive skin, long dark hair, younger than my ex (and look younger than I am). She has a nicer body than me, no I didn't get fat, but I'm prettier in the face.

[Anonymous]

What's your point?
Her body is banging, so he bangs her a lot.

[Anonymous]

Ugh. Thanks for starting this thread, because this is exactly what I was thinking.

Ugh, his first girlfriend while we were married (happened years ago) looked like me, but an uglier version. I am taller, prettier, and more accomplished.

His second girlfriend now that we're separated is mousy and ugly. She doesn't have a degree and is always about to get fired from her job. And she is a nasty hoarder. She got this awful bob haircut a few months ago, and I couldn't help but make a snide comment at the grocery store when I ran into her. I said, "Oh my goodness, who did that to your hair? It looks AWFUL! I am so sorry." She was my friend, so that bitch deserved it.

Yes, yes. Haters have at it. I know folks are going to be judgemental about my bitchiness. But I am usually a very sweet, kind, giving, empathetic person who volunteers and donates to charity, etc.

[Anonymous]

You are no longer with him so who he sleeps with doesn't matter.
You ladies need to stop defining your worth by the men who are attracted to you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Ugh. Thanks for starting this thread, because this is exactly what I was thinking.

Ugh, his first girlfriend while we were married (happened years ago) looked like me, but an uglier version. I am taller, prettier, and more accomplished.

His second girlfriend now that we're separated is mousy and ugly. She doesn't have a degree and is always about to get fired from her job. And she is a nasty hoarder. She got this awful bob haircut a few months ago, and I couldn't help but make a snide comment at the grocery store when I ran into her. I said, "Oh my goodness, who did that to your hair? It looks AWFUL! I am so sorry." She was my friend, so that bitch deserved it.

Yes, yes. Haters have at it. I know folks are going to be judgemental about my bitchiness. But I am usually a very sweet, kind, giving, empathetic person who volunteers and donates to charity, etc.

Looks aren't everything ladies. Personality matters to men too, how you make him feel, judging by your post I don't think you are as nice and as empathetic as you believe yourself to be.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Ugh. Thanks for starting this thread, because this is exactly what I was thinking.

Ugh, his first girlfriend while we were married (happened years ago) looked like me, but an uglier version. I am taller, prettier, and more accomplished.

His second girlfriend now that we're separated is mousy and ugly. She doesn't have a degree and is always about to get fired from her job. And she is a nasty hoarder. She got this awful bob haircut a few months ago, and I couldn't help but make a snide comment at the grocery store when I ran into her. I said, "Oh my goodness, who did that to your hair? It looks AWFUL! I am so sorry." She was my friend, so that bitch deserved it.

Yes, yes. Haters have at it. I know folks are going to be judgemental about my bitchiness. But I am usually a very sweet, kind, giving, empathetic person who volunteers and donates to charity, etc.

They must be doing something better than you. Sex, maybe?

[Anonymous]

My ex has has a serious girlfriend for about 18 months maybe. She has kids which is SUCH a relief because I feel like mothers know more when it comes to care giving and she has material instinct and all that. My kids like her but dont really give many details. She is a good baker because she made a cake once and sent home left overs…it was divine! Shes a little religious which is not my cup of tea but as long as she's not baptizing my kids in the lake I guess its ok. She looks very similar to be in build and features but all his girlfriends have…he has a type for sure! All in all I like her and hope it leads to something stable.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Ugh. Thanks for starting this thread, because this is exactly what I was thinking.

Ugh, his first girlfriend while we were married (happened years ago) looked like me, but an uglier version. I am taller, prettier, and more accomplished.

His second girlfriend now that we're separated is mousy and ugly. She doesn't have a degree and is always about to get fired from her job. And she is a nasty hoarder. She got this awful bob haircut a few months ago, and I couldn't help but make a snide comment at the grocery store when I ran into her. I said, "Oh my goodness, who did that to your hair? It looks AWFUL! I am so sorry." She was my friend, so that bitch deserved it.

Yes, yes. Haters have at it. I know folks are going to be judgemental about my bitchiness. But I am usually a very sweet, kind, giving, empathetic person who volunteers and donates to charity, etc.

They must be doing something better than you. Sex, maybe?

this. the new GF is likely a porn star in the bed room and likely makes him feel like a king (in and out of the bedroom)

[Anonymous]

I don't have anything bad to say about my ex husband's new wife's appearance. She looks different than me but not really in a bad way. We didn't have kids and my only issue with her is that until she came into the picture, my ex and I got along fine and shared visitation with our dogs (I know that is silly to many, but important to me). Once she stared dating him he wasn't allowed to talk to me and wouldn't let me see the dogs anymore which was really upsetting. But appearance? She's fine and I can see why he would find her attractive.

[Anonymous]

It pains me to say that my ex's GF is very nice. My very limited contact with her has been friendly.

[Anonymous]

Different in looks, we are both good looking - but she is very different than me. She's super nice. Very caring and kind. Not like me at all. Very domestic (cooks, clean) and very sporty. I'm a book nerd and a slob.

He's happy and I'm happy - I guess that's the point right?

[Anonymous]

He only cares about body when the lights are out

[Anonymous]

She's pretty and successful, but morally bankrupt.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Inspired by the thread about your husbands ex-girlfriends I thought I'd start this thread.

I'll start- his current girlfriend looks much older than him (he's 45), very pale, blonde, Eastern European looking. Nice body, not very attractive in the face. I haven't met her, only seen pictures, so I don't know what she's like.

I'm olive skin, long dark hair, younger than my ex (and look younger than I am). She has a nicer body than me, no I didn't get fat, but I'm prettier in the face.

And now we understand why he left you. Move on.

[Anonymous]

Men are fine with butterfaces: a woman for whom everything looks nice but her face.