Just got a letter from Aetna about a having a healthy preg. but I had a m/c

[Anonymous]

and they surely know that because they have paid the ER bills.......

So first I was mad but now I am sitting at my desk in the office trying sooo hard not to cry............... I really so badly wanted this baby, would not have needed a patronising letter from Aetna (who denied some claims during my last pregnancy, go figure) about having a healthy pregnancy......

[Anonymous]

I'm sorry.

[Anonymous]

I went through the same thing last Spring with my m/c. I was really excited about the pregnancy (my second) and went ahead and signed up for Aetna's maternity program. After the m/c I was receiving materials about healthy pregnancy.
Anyways, I'm sorry for your loss. I've been there and I can commiserate.

[Anonymous]

I am so sorry. I can only imagine how horrible that must feel.

[Anonymous]

Ouch. I am so sorry.

[Anonymous]

I'm so sorry for your loss. I know how hard it is. What you described happened to me all of the time. I'd get things in the mail about my pregnancy and samples galore. It was a hard reminder. Hugs to you.

[Anonymous]

OP - I am very sorry for your loss. I also had this experience. There are many things that can / will be painful but it does get better. It takes time and tears though.

[Anonymous]

OP here. Thank you all for your kind words and support. I am also very sorry to hear from each of you of your loss.

[Anonymous]

I'm so sorry for your loss. I completely understand how you feel. After my miscarriage, my OB's office called not once, but TWICE to confirm sonograms in the weeks after my D&C. It is really outrageous that people aren't more careful. Needless to say, I'm am now with a new OB. Hang in there, it will get better.