Is is ill advised to date a chubby chasers?

[Anonymous]

Is it a fetish? Are they trustworthy? dateable?

[Anonymous]

Your health will never improve.

[Anonymous]

I could never bring myself to do it. I didn't think I was attractive and didn't find my fat rolls something I enjoyed touching so I always thought for someone to enjoy it, they had to be a little off.

[Anonymous]

People are attracted to different things, it is what it is. It is a different question whether or not an individual would be a good choice to date. Do you like him ? Is he employed ? Criminal record ? What interests do you have in common ?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:People are attracted to different things, it is what it is. It is a different question whether or not an individual would be a good choice to date. Do you like him ? Is he employed ? Criminal record ? What interests do you have in common ?

lol. These are the questions, sheeple.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:People are attracted to different things, it is what it is. It is a different question whether or not an individual would be a good choice to date. Do you like him ? Is he employed ? Criminal record ? What interests do you have in common ?

lol. These are the questions, sheeple.

so you think that they must all be the same then?

[Anonymous]

How do you know he's a chubby chaser? Most men in America are married to obese women. Are they chubby chasers? LOL Sometimes it's just not the most important thing in the world.

[ZachF]

If you label a guy a chubby chaser then it's hard to like him or appreciate his desire for you. Like there is something wrong g with him. Many of my male friends like bigger women and freely admit the kind of women I like does nothing for them. There is nothing wrong with a man having a preference. I say, go for it.

[Anonymous]

As a fat women you have to make sure you aren't being put into the fetish category. My boyfriend is an "fa" ( fat admirer).
Some folks have tried to put us in a fetishy category. He's conventionally attractive and I'm not. But I've met his family, and some of his coworkers.
If he never wants to take you out and always wants to chill watching Netflix he's not serious.

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

So because you're fat you're lonely?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

So because you're fat you're lonely?

If you're paranoid of potential partners for fear that they may have a fetish for your enormity then yeah...you're probably lonely.

[Anonymous]

I think the question is whether it bothers you. Everyone has a type, no? My husband is attracted to petite brunettes. All his exes look like that, and I am one also. I think it would bother me more if I were a tall blonde!

[Anonymous]

Having a type is fine. Just like you would want to marry someone who would still love you if you gained 50 pounds, you want to marry someone who will still love you if you lose 50 pounds.

So if its the only reason you're together, no bueno, if its just a happy coincidence to your otherwise compatible relationship than all the better.

[Anonymous]

I see nothing wrong with asking the question. You want someone who's interested you as a person, and is either okay with how you look or likes it. To be fetishized is another thing, and it puts certain characteristics ahead of who you are as a person.

Asian-American women also often have to assess whether an interested guy is fetishizing them. It doesn't make people paranoid or lonely cat ladies if they want to make sure they're not just a fetish.