Finally divorced from husband who had a baby with his 26 year old assistant.

[Anonymous]

Life is good. Kids are adjusting. I tried everything to save my marriage but looking back, I wish I would have just ended it.
Staying with a cheater is soul sucking. Obviously, some things are still difficult but the freedom I feel is great.

I received a lot of positive support so thank you very much.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Life is good. Kids are adjusting. I tried everything to save my marriage but looking back, I wish I would have just ended it.
Staying with a cheater is soul sucking. Obviously, some things are still difficult but the freedom I feel is great.

I received a lot of positive support so thank you very much.

Good for you OP, wishing you and your children the best.

Don't worry, Karma is a bitch.

[Anonymous]

Sorry your DH was an ass. Glad you found happiness on the other side.

[Anonymous]

Glad you are happy Op.

[Anonymous]

Happy for you OP. You can do it girl.

[Anonymous]

How old are your dcs?

You're tough. Good things are ahead!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:How old are your dcs?

You're tough. Good things are ahead!

My son will be 16 this month and my daughter will be 13. My daughter has had the most difficult time of the two adjusting. It helps that we are very good co-parents.

I have come a long way from the blow-up Christmas decoration massacre.

To all that are struggling through difficult break-ups or divorces, I promise you, there is hope and happiness on the other side.

[Anonymous]

Thanks for the update, op. Good to hear things are better and hope good things keep happening.

[Anonymous]

I remember your post from a while back. I am so happy that you are doing well and everyone is adjusting.

[Anonymous]

Happy to hear you are happy, op. Wishing you and your kids the best.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How old are your dcs?

You're tough. Good things are ahead!

My son will be 16 this month and my daughter will be 13. My daughter has had the most difficult time of the two adjusting. It helps that we are very good co-parents.

I have come a long way from the blow-up Christmas decoration massacre.

To all that are struggling through difficult break-ups or divorces, I promise you, there is hope and happiness on the other side.

I bet he is saying the same thing, "happiness on the other side."

[Anonymous]

I really enjoy updates like this.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I really enjoy updates like this.

Me too! Whatever happened with the baby?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How old are your dcs?

You're tough. Good things are ahead!

My son will be 16 this month and my daughter will be 13. My daughter has had the most difficult time of the two adjusting. It helps that we are very good co-parents.

I have come a long way from the blow-up Christmas decoration massacre.

To all that are struggling through difficult break-ups or divorces, I promise you, there is hope and happiness on the other side.

I bet he is saying the same thing, "happiness on the other side."

OP here- the 10th post and an asshole comes along. If his happiness includes losing his home, friends, my family, his job he loved, the respect of everyone he knows, then yep! He is super happy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I really enjoy updates like this.

Me too! Whatever happened with the baby?

I honestly am not sure. They are still married and living a few miles from my house. As far as I know, my ex husband does not see the child. He will be three in May. In Michigan, when the child turns 3, no lawsuits can ever be filed as to paternity.

I don't ask. My kids never ask. Not my monkeys not my circus anymore.