Bennifer Revisited

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Ben must really know how to sweet talk cause you never know when or who he's with. Or he's really good in bed.

It's all about the SEX!

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Anonymous wrote:I think they are cute together. I hope they are very very happy.

I honestly think that out of all his relationships she is the only partner that can keep him on the straight and narrow. He wants the girl next door, but he needs JLo.

Right...so for every other person in recovery they have to do it themselves, but she is so exceptional, in this case, as a partner she can keep him clean and sober. It's amazing how her fans drink this Kool aid about how exceptional she is in relationships especially. The data does not bear it out. She has a chaotic, troubled relationship history. He is an addict. The romanticizing is part of the problem.

+1 exactly! Immaturity on display!!

That's not what I am saying, although I do see that saying straight and narrow definitely sounds like that's all I was saying. Poor choice of words.

My take is more that Ben is arrogant as hell, can focus when he needs to, but also also be lazy and somewhat aimless unless he has a project or whatever. But he thinks he needs to be in charge.

I think JLo is one of the hardest working women in really any industry. She has an incredible work ethic. I don't think she's going to tolerate Ben being or doing any less with his talent. She will call him out on his s$i! and if will let the arrogance go with her and let her run the show he will thrive. He thinks he needs to be the alpha in all aspects of the relationship when he really only needs to be the alpha in certain areas.

I also think this whole relationship is publicity driven right now and may not make it anywhere, but Ben dating JGar personality clones isn't going to do him any good.

This is fascinating. Why should she "run the show?" This is a model of a healthy relationship?? These themes emerge when talking about her because they are her issues...control, discipline, the sharing of power. She struggles with mutuality. She probably won't tolerate him long term. That's why it's a poor choice. These are not adolescents, whose personalities are just being formed. They are midlife adults/parents with complex relationship histories and entrenched personality dynamics...he cannot just "let the arrogance go"...it's part of who he is...his personality. And why does she repeatedly pick a man she has to call out...on anything? J lo lives in another world relationship wise. She is very ungrounded and unwise in this way. Lots of fantasies I think.

You know Jennifer and Ben were engaged to each other at the ages of 33 and 30 respectively right? How is that adolescence. They were grown adults who were perfectly happy in their choice of each other and have found their way back to that same level of happiness and respect.

People forget because they currently are in such incredible shape and look young but they are basically 50.

No one has forgotten that they’re 50. They’re just acting like a couple of twenty year olds who don’t have kids to consider, and haven’t been married four times between them.

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Anonymous wrote:I think they are cute together. I hope they are very very happy.

I honestly think that out of all his relationships she is the only partner that can keep him on the straight and narrow. He wants the girl next door, but he needs JLo.

Right...so for every other person in recovery they have to do it themselves, but she is so exceptional, in this case, as a partner she can keep him clean and sober. It's amazing how her fans drink this Kool aid about how exceptional she is in relationships especially. The data does not bear it out. She has a chaotic, troubled relationship history. He is an addict. The romanticizing is part of the problem.

+1 exactly! Immaturity on display!!

That's not what I am saying, although I do see that saying straight and narrow definitely sounds like that's all I was saying. Poor choice of words.

My take is more that Ben is arrogant as hell, can focus when he needs to, but also also be lazy and somewhat aimless unless he has a project or whatever. But he thinks he needs to be in charge.

I think JLo is one of the hardest working women in really any industry. She has an incredible work ethic. I don't think she's going to tolerate Ben being or doing any less with his talent. She will call him out on his s$i! and if will let the arrogance go with her and let her run the show he will thrive. He thinks he needs to be the alpha in all aspects of the relationship when he really only needs to be the alpha in certain areas.

I also think this whole relationship is publicity driven right now and may not make it anywhere, but Ben dating JGar personality clones isn't going to do him any good.

This is fascinating. Why should she "run the show?" This is a model of a healthy relationship?? These themes emerge when talking about her because they are her issues...control, discipline, the sharing of power. She struggles with mutuality. She probably won't tolerate him long term. That's why it's a poor choice. These are not adolescents, whose personalities are just being formed. They are midlife adults/parents with complex relationship histories and entrenched personality dynamics...he cannot just "let the arrogance go"...it's part of who he is...his personality. And why does she repeatedly pick a man she has to call out...on anything? J lo lives in another world relationship wise. She is very ungrounded and unwise in this way. Lots of fantasies I think.

You know Jennifer and Ben were engaged to each other at the ages of 33 and 30 respectively right? How is that adolescence. They were grown adults who were perfectly happy in their choice of each other and have found their way back to that same level of happiness and respect.

People forget because they currently are in such incredible shape and look young but they are basically 50.

No one has forgotten that they’re 50. They’re just acting like a couple of twenty year olds who don’t have kids to consider, and haven’t been married four times between them.

And you KNOW this how, exactly? Talk about crazy speculation based on some pap shots.

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Anonymous wrote:I think they are cute together. I hope they are very very happy.

I honestly think that out of all his relationships she is the only partner that can keep him on the straight and narrow. He wants the girl next door, but he needs JLo.

Right...so for every other person in recovery they have to do it themselves, but she is so exceptional, in this case, as a partner she can keep him clean and sober. It's amazing how her fans drink this Kool aid about how exceptional she is in relationships especially. The data does not bear it out. She has a chaotic, troubled relationship history. He is an addict. The romanticizing is part of the problem.

+1 exactly! Immaturity on display!!

That's not what I am saying, although I do see that saying straight and narrow definitely sounds like that's all I was saying. Poor choice of words.

My take is more that Ben is arrogant as hell, can focus when he needs to, but also also be lazy and somewhat aimless unless he has a project or whatever. But he thinks he needs to be in charge.

I think JLo is one of the hardest working women in really any industry. She has an incredible work ethic. I don't think she's going to tolerate Ben being or doing any less with his talent. She will call him out on his s$i! and if will let the arrogance go with her and let her run the show he will thrive. He thinks he needs to be the alpha in all aspects of the relationship when he really only needs to be the alpha in certain areas.

I also think this whole relationship is publicity driven right now and may not make it anywhere, but Ben dating JGar personality clones isn't going to do him any good.

This is fascinating. Why should she "run the show?" This is a model of a healthy relationship?? These themes emerge when talking about her because they are her issues...control, discipline, the sharing of power. She struggles with mutuality. She probably won't tolerate him long term. That's why it's a poor choice. These are not adolescents, whose personalities are just being formed. They are midlife adults/parents with complex relationship histories and entrenched personality dynamics...he cannot just "let the arrogance go"...it's part of who he is...his personality. And why does she repeatedly pick a man she has to call out...on anything? J lo lives in another world relationship wise. She is very ungrounded and unwise in this way. Lots of fantasies I think.

You know Jennifer and Ben were engaged to each other at the ages of 33 and 30 respectively right? How is that adolescence. They were grown adults who were perfectly happy in their choice of each other and have found their way back to that same level of happiness and respect.

People forget because they currently are in such incredible shape and look young but they are basically 50.

No one has forgotten that they’re 50. They’re just acting like a couple of twenty year olds who don’t have kids to consider, and haven’t been married four times between them.

And you KNOW this how, exactly? Talk about crazy speculation based on some pap shots.

DP. Um...no...based on their bebaviors and choices.

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Anonymous wrote:Ben must really know how to sweet talk cause you never know when or who he's with. Or he's really good in bed.

It's all about the SEX!

I think he is both! There are some guys that get a lot of women but keep their mouths shut about it. Women tend to appreciate that quality in a man.

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Anonymous wrote:I think they are cute together. I hope they are very very happy.

I honestly think that out of all his relationships she is the only partner that can keep him on the straight and narrow. He wants the girl next door, but he needs JLo.

Right...so for every other person in recovery they have to do it themselves, but she is so exceptional, in this case, as a partner she can keep him clean and sober. It's amazing how her fans drink this Kool aid about how exceptional she is in relationships especially. The data does not bear it out. She has a chaotic, troubled relationship history. He is an addict. The romanticizing is part of the problem.

+1 exactly! Immaturity on display!!

That's not what I am saying, although I do see that saying straight and narrow definitely sounds like that's all I was saying. Poor choice of words.

My take is more that Ben is arrogant as hell, can focus when he needs to, but also also be lazy and somewhat aimless unless he has a project or whatever. But he thinks he needs to be in charge.

I think JLo is one of the hardest working women in really any industry. She has an incredible work ethic. I don't think she's going to tolerate Ben being or doing any less with his talent. She will call him out on his s$i! and if will let the arrogance go with her and let her run the show he will thrive. He thinks he needs to be the alpha in all aspects of the relationship when he really only needs to be the alpha in certain areas.

I also think this whole relationship is publicity driven right now and may not make it anywhere, but Ben dating JGar personality clones isn't going to do him any good.

This is fascinating. Why should she "run the show?" This is a model of a healthy relationship?? These themes emerge when talking about her because they are her issues...control, discipline, the sharing of power. She struggles with mutuality. She probably won't tolerate him long term. That's why it's a poor choice. These are not adolescents, whose personalities are just being formed. They are midlife adults/parents with complex relationship histories and entrenched personality dynamics...he cannot just "let the arrogance go"...it's part of who he is...his personality. And why does she repeatedly pick a man she has to call out...on anything? J lo lives in another world relationship wise. She is very ungrounded and unwise in this way. Lots of fantasies I think.

You know Jennifer and Ben were engaged to each other at the ages of 33 and 30 respectively right? How is that adolescence. They were grown adults who were perfectly happy in their choice of each other and have found their way back to that same level of happiness and respect.

People forget because they currently are in such incredible shape and look young but they are basically 50.

No one has forgotten that they’re 50. They’re just acting like a couple of twenty year olds who don’t have kids to consider, and haven’t been married four times between them.

And you KNOW this how, exactly? Talk about crazy speculation based on some pap shots.

DP. Um...no...based on their bebaviors and choices.

What insights do you have into their "behaviors and choices" beyond what you read in the tabloids whose job it is to sell a story? ZERO

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Anonymous wrote:I think they are cute together. I hope they are very very happy.

I honestly think that out of all his relationships she is the only partner that can keep him on the straight and narrow. He wants the girl next door, but he needs JLo.

Right...so for every other person in recovery they have to do it themselves, but she is so exceptional, in this case, as a partner she can keep him clean and sober. It's amazing how her fans drink this Kool aid about how exceptional she is in relationships especially. The data does not bear it out. She has a chaotic, troubled relationship history. He is an addict. The romanticizing is part of the problem.

+1 exactly! Immaturity on display!!

That's not what I am saying, although I do see that saying straight and narrow definitely sounds like that's all I was saying. Poor choice of words.

My take is more that Ben is arrogant as hell, can focus when he needs to, but also also be lazy and somewhat aimless unless he has a project or whatever. But he thinks he needs to be in charge.

I think JLo is one of the hardest working women in really any industry. She has an incredible work ethic. I don't think she's going to tolerate Ben being or doing any less with his talent. She will call him out on his s$i! and if will let the arrogance go with her and let her run the show he will thrive. He thinks he needs to be the alpha in all aspects of the relationship when he really only needs to be the alpha in certain areas.

I also think this whole relationship is publicity driven right now and may not make it anywhere, but Ben dating JGar personality clones isn't going to do him any good.

This is fascinating. Why should she "run the show?" This is a model of a healthy relationship?? These themes emerge when talking about her because they are her issues...control, discipline, the sharing of power. She struggles with mutuality. She probably won't tolerate him long term. That's why it's a poor choice. These are not adolescents, whose personalities are just being formed. They are midlife adults/parents with complex relationship histories and entrenched personality dynamics...he cannot just "let the arrogance go"...it's part of who he is...his personality. And why does she repeatedly pick a man she has to call out...on anything? J lo lives in another world relationship wise. She is very ungrounded and unwise in this way. Lots of fantasies I think.

You know Jennifer and Ben were engaged to each other at the ages of 33 and 30 respectively right? How is that adolescence. They were grown adults who were perfectly happy in their choice of each other and have found their way back to that same level of happiness and respect.

People forget because they currently are in such incredible shape and look young but they are basically 50.

No one has forgotten that they’re 50. They’re just acting like a couple of twenty year olds who don’t have kids to consider, and haven’t been married four times between them.

And you KNOW this how, exactly? Talk about crazy speculation based on some pap shots.

DP. Um...no...based on their bebaviors and choices.

What insights do you have into their "behaviors and choices" beyond what you read in the tabloids whose job it is to sell a story? ZERO

I mean, you don’t need to have personal insight to see that they both have unstable relationship histories, four divorces between them (three of which are hers), he has a history with addiction, gambling, and cheating, and they got together a week after ending her engagement to a partner of four years. The amount of times they’ve been photographed together, taking vacations together and even spending time together with her children at this stage shows how impulsive they both are, and how inconsiderate she is of her children’s well being and exposure to stability. It’s pretty pathetic. It would be even more selfish and pathetic for her to uproot her kids from Miami to LA for a new relationship, which she seems to be doing.

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Anonymous wrote:I think they are cute together. I hope they are very very happy.

I honestly think that out of all his relationships she is the only partner that can keep him on the straight and narrow. He wants the girl next door, but he needs JLo.

Right...so for every other person in recovery they have to do it themselves, but she is so exceptional, in this case, as a partner she can keep him clean and sober. It's amazing how her fans drink this Kool aid about how exceptional she is in relationships especially. The data does not bear it out. She has a chaotic, troubled relationship history. He is an addict. The romanticizing is part of the problem.

+1 exactly! Immaturity on display!!

That's not what I am saying, although I do see that saying straight and narrow definitely sounds like that's all I was saying. Poor choice of words.

My take is more that Ben is arrogant as hell, can focus when he needs to, but also also be lazy and somewhat aimless unless he has a project or whatever. But he thinks he needs to be in charge.

I think JLo is one of the hardest working women in really any industry. She has an incredible work ethic. I don't think she's going to tolerate Ben being or doing any less with his talent. She will call him out on his s$i! and if will let the arrogance go with her and let her run the show he will thrive. He thinks he needs to be the alpha in all aspects of the relationship when he really only needs to be the alpha in certain areas.

I also think this whole relationship is publicity driven right now and may not make it anywhere, but Ben dating JGar personality clones isn't going to do him any good.

This is fascinating. Why should she "run the show?" This is a model of a healthy relationship?? These themes emerge when talking about her because they are her issues...control, discipline, the sharing of power. She struggles with mutuality. She probably won't tolerate him long term. That's why it's a poor choice. These are not adolescents, whose personalities are just being formed. They are midlife adults/parents with complex relationship histories and entrenched personality dynamics...he cannot just "let the arrogance go"...it's part of who he is...his personality. And why does she repeatedly pick a man she has to call out...on anything? J lo lives in another world relationship wise. She is very ungrounded and unwise in this way. Lots of fantasies I think.

You know Jennifer and Ben were engaged to each other at the ages of 33 and 30 respectively right? How is that adolescence. They were grown adults who were perfectly happy in their choice of each other and have found their way back to that same level of happiness and respect.

People forget because they currently are in such incredible shape and look young but they are basically 50.

No one has forgotten that they’re 50. They’re just acting like a couple of twenty year olds who don’t have kids to consider, and haven’t been married four times between them.

And you KNOW this how, exactly? Talk about crazy speculation based on some pap shots.

DP. Um...no...based on their bebaviors and choices.

What insights do you have into their "behaviors and choices" beyond what you read in the tabloids whose job it is to sell a story? ZERO

I mean, you don’t need to have personal insight to see that they both have unstable relationship histories, four divorces between them (three of which are hers), he has a history with addiction, gambling, and cheating, and they got together a week after ending her engagement to a partner of four years. The amount of times they’ve been photographed together, taking vacations together and even spending time together with her children at this stage shows how impulsive they both are, and how inconsiderate she is of her children’s well being and exposure to stability. It’s pretty pathetic. It would be even more selfish and pathetic for her to uproot her kids from Miami to LA for a new relationship, which she seems to be doing.

You have me in full agreement until the bolded. We have no idea what kind of parent she is - or Ben Affleck is, for that matter. Both co-parent and share custody so their children already have some degree of variation in their lives. Judging Lopez by the occasions she’s out with Affleck which could constitute less than 20% of her time and / or periods where her kids are with their father isn’t fair. If you’re out to dinner with your friends sans kids would you want to be judged as a parent for the two - three hours you were away? Moreover, why only question the woman? Are you equally as concerned about Affleck’s kids?

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Anonymous wrote:I think they are cute together. I hope they are very very happy.

I honestly think that out of all his relationships she is the only partner that can keep him on the straight and narrow. He wants the girl next door, but he needs JLo.

Right...so for every other person in recovery they have to do it themselves, but she is so exceptional, in this case, as a partner she can keep him clean and sober. It's amazing how her fans drink this Kool aid about how exceptional she is in relationships especially. The data does not bear it out. She has a chaotic, troubled relationship history. He is an addict. The romanticizing is part of the problem.

+1 exactly! Immaturity on display!!

That's not what I am saying, although I do see that saying straight and narrow definitely sounds like that's all I was saying. Poor choice of words.

My take is more that Ben is arrogant as hell, can focus when he needs to, but also also be lazy and somewhat aimless unless he has a project or whatever. But he thinks he needs to be in charge.

I think JLo is one of the hardest working women in really any industry. She has an incredible work ethic. I don't think she's going to tolerate Ben being or doing any less with his talent. She will call him out on his s$i! and if will let the arrogance go with her and let her run the show he will thrive. He thinks he needs to be the alpha in all aspects of the relationship when he really only needs to be the alpha in certain areas.

I also think this whole relationship is publicity driven right now and may not make it anywhere, but Ben dating JGar personality clones isn't going to do him any good.

This is fascinating. Why should she "run the show?" This is a model of a healthy relationship?? These themes emerge when talking about her because they are her issues...control, discipline, the sharing of power. She struggles with mutuality. She probably won't tolerate him long term. That's why it's a poor choice. These are not adolescents, whose personalities are just being formed. They are midlife adults/parents with complex relationship histories and entrenched personality dynamics...he cannot just "let the arrogance go"...it's part of who he is...his personality. And why does she repeatedly pick a man she has to call out...on anything? J lo lives in another world relationship wise. She is very ungrounded and unwise in this way. Lots of fantasies I think.

You know Jennifer and Ben were engaged to each other at the ages of 33 and 30 respectively right? How is that adolescence. They were grown adults who were perfectly happy in their choice of each other and have found their way back to that same level of happiness and respect.

People forget because they currently are in such incredible shape and look young but they are basically 50.

No one has forgotten that they’re 50. They’re just acting like a couple of twenty year olds who don’t have kids to consider, and haven’t been married four times between them.

And you KNOW this how, exactly? Talk about crazy speculation based on some pap shots.

DP. Um...no...based on their bebaviors and choices.

What insights do you have into their "behaviors and choices" beyond what you read in the tabloids whose job it is to sell a story? ZERO

I mean, you don’t need to have personal insight to see that they both have unstable relationship histories, four divorces between them (three of which are hers), he has a history with addiction, gambling, and cheating, and they got together a week after ending her engagement to a partner of four years. The amount of times they’ve been photographed together, taking vacations together and even spending time together with her children at this stage shows how impulsive they both are, and how inconsiderate she is of her children’s well being and exposure to stability. It’s pretty pathetic. It would be even more selfish and pathetic for her to uproot her kids from Miami to LA for a new relationship, which she seems to be doing.

You have me in full agreement until the bolded. We have no idea what kind of parent she is - or Ben Affleck is, for that matter. Both co-parent and share custody so their children already have some degree of variation in their lives. Judging Lopez by the occasions she’s out with Affleck which could constitute less than 20% of her time and / or periods where her kids are with their father isn’t fair. If you’re out to dinner with your friends sans kids would you want to be judged as a parent for the two - three hours you were away? Moreover, why only question the woman? Are you equally as concerned about Affleck’s kids?

PP here. I was specifically referring to pictures last week of Jen and Ben making out at dinner in front of her two kids (like a month after they started dating and 6 weeks after calling off her engagement?) as well as her looking at schools in LA (which I hope is just speculation).

Bens not winning any parenting awards either but either at least he (or Jennifer Garners influence) don’t seem to be throwing them in front of his new relationship, or uprooting their lives for it.

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Anonymous wrote:I think they are cute together. I hope they are very very happy.

I honestly think that out of all his relationships she is the only partner that can keep him on the straight and narrow. He wants the girl next door, but he needs JLo.

Right...so for every other person in recovery they have to do it themselves, but she is so exceptional, in this case, as a partner she can keep him clean and sober. It's amazing how her fans drink this Kool aid about how exceptional she is in relationships especially. The data does not bear it out. She has a chaotic, troubled relationship history. He is an addict. The romanticizing is part of the problem.

+1 exactly! Immaturity on display!!

That's not what I am saying, although I do see that saying straight and narrow definitely sounds like that's all I was saying. Poor choice of words.

My take is more that Ben is arrogant as hell, can focus when he needs to, but also also be lazy and somewhat aimless unless he has a project or whatever. But he thinks he needs to be in charge.

I think JLo is one of the hardest working women in really any industry. She has an incredible work ethic. I don't think she's going to tolerate Ben being or doing any less with his talent. She will call him out on his s$i! and if will let the arrogance go with her and let her run the show he will thrive. He thinks he needs to be the alpha in all aspects of the relationship when he really only needs to be the alpha in certain areas.

I also think this whole relationship is publicity driven right now and may not make it anywhere, but Ben dating JGar personality clones isn't going to do him any good.

This is fascinating. Why should she "run the show?" This is a model of a healthy relationship?? These themes emerge when talking about her because they are her issues...control, discipline, the sharing of power. She struggles with mutuality. She probably won't tolerate him long term. That's why it's a poor choice. These are not adolescents, whose personalities are just being formed. They are midlife adults/parents with complex relationship histories and entrenched personality dynamics...he cannot just "let the arrogance go"...it's part of who he is...his personality. And why does she repeatedly pick a man she has to call out...on anything? J lo lives in another world relationship wise. She is very ungrounded and unwise in this way. Lots of fantasies I think.

You know Jennifer and Ben were engaged to each other at the ages of 33 and 30 respectively right? How is that adolescence. They were grown adults who were perfectly happy in their choice of each other and have found their way back to that same level of happiness and respect.

People forget because they currently are in such incredible shape and look young but they are basically 50.

No one has forgotten that they’re 50. They’re just acting like a couple of twenty year olds who don’t have kids to consider, and haven’t been married four times between them.

And you KNOW this how, exactly? Talk about crazy speculation based on some pap shots.

DP. Um...no...based on their bebaviors and choices.

What insights do you have into their "behaviors and choices" beyond what you read in the tabloids whose job it is to sell a story? ZERO

You think the pics we've seen of them together within 2 weeks of her breaking up with her "fiance" are fake? Ok😂

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Anonymous wrote:Ben must really know how to sweet talk cause you never know when or who he's with. Or he's really good in bed.

It's all about the SEX!

It's all about the PUBLICITY.

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What's up with Ben these days? He looks horrible

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Anonymous wrote:What's up with Ben these days? He looks horrible

I think he's just middle aged.

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Anonymous wrote:What's up with Ben these days? He looks horrible

I think he's just middle aged.

Rugged and hot in that pic.

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She's worn him out!!