Kane from Kaneshow divorcing and crying on air right now (Part 3)

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:She just posted this on facebook:

Danni Starr -Daaaaamn Danielle
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I KNOW I don't have to address certain thintgs. I know the people who ride with me, RIDE WITH ME...but there comes a point in time where you can't let people assassinate your character. For some of you no matter what I do you won't be happy. If I post about the causes that I am involved in... I am " praising myself" if I stop posting about things that I am involved in all of a sudden it's oh so she just stopped caring about stuff and on to the next cause. Sure I could tell you that I talk weekly with Nicole Green from the Office of Women's health, I could tell you that I have written Erin Brockovich about the Flint water crisis. I could tell you that I attend monthly Postpartum support groups, that I spend hours responding to as many emails as I possibly can trying to give women resources for breastfeeding and postpartum support. I could tell you that I transferred the money for Tina's headstone to my cousin shanna so she can make sure Auntie Debbie gets a beautiful memorial for her daughter but you know after decades of not having anything for her, my guess is she wants it to be perfect and it's hard to decide. I could tell you that I love the police but I am super anti police brutality and militarized police and so I have also reached out to activist Shaun King to lend my voice and support. I don't tell you EVERYTHING because I am not living for you. I am living for me and these girls. I'm damned if I do and damned if I don't for some of you. I see some of you excited that I may no longer return to the show and all I can think is...Damn there are really people who don't realize I am the supporter of my family and that my girls would suffer if I didn't work.
Jesus himself could invite me to dinner, sit me next to the pope and you would STILL find something to say. "can you believe she wore that to dinner with Jesus?" " You know the pope was like why the hell Jesus sit me next to Danni." "Oh now she rolls with Jesus huh, don't she celebrate hanukkah?"
Look, it's cute that you think that my Facebook page is a complete reflection of who I am, it really is...
you attack the way I am handling my divorce, you call me a liar because I said I didn't have postpartum depression with the second baby...You are trying so hard to hate me and I just don't get it.
Would you rather I handle my divorce with drama? would you rather me tell Slim he can't see his daughters. Fight for full custody and post horrible statuses about all of it?
I picked him to marry so clearly I have a lot of love for him. The sh*t didn't work for a lot of reasons that you know and A LOT of reasons that you don't...but is it really killing you that we both come from broken homes and so we want to co parent, support each other, raise our daughters to know love and that we will welcome other people into our lives because the more people that love our girls the better they are off?
Oh, and I didn't have postpartum depression with the second baby, I have postpartum anxiety and clearly with all your commenting you have NEVER experienced it and Thank God for that. Seriously thank your damn lucky stars.
What else? Did I miss something??? I was hired because I was a sassy, opinionated woman, I literally was hired to be myself...yet you hate me because I am a sassy, opinionated woman...So I should change for you? because you don't like it?
NAW NEVER GONNA HAPPEN.
I lost my voice for awhile. I couldn't always speak up on topics that I knew I should and I wanted to. I was called aggressive...I would beg to differ and say I am PASSIONATE.
Good news is, I got my voice back, I finally have peace of mind and I'M NEVER LETTING IT GO!
funny how when you finally know your worth it terrifies people. When you learn what you are capable of you don't want to settle.
I am a mom, I am a person, I have feelings, I am vulnerable, I am NOT always right, I care about people, I laugh really loud, I talk a lot, I can't wait to do some amazing things so I can send edible arrangements to the people who said I couldn't do it...yeah I can be petty too....I AM HUMAN!
LET ME LIVE!

I think she missed the point on a lot of these topics. I can feel for her in a way, but I don't think anyone is upset about her co-parenting (for example) more about the fact she talked so much shit about Slim on air. If she was still supporting causes that MATTER why didn't she show that she supported them? No one needed to hear that she pumped at work every 5 minutes, but talking about support groups, etc for other moms would be helpful. Maybe she means well but she seems to go about everything the wrong way. And honestly I think she should have spoken on the headstone when she is asking listeners - people that DON'T know her to give her money. You ask for money and say nothing after the fact that makes people feel like you just took their money and did whatever you want with it. She may have been hired for being herself, but if people don't like her, they need to let her go. it's funny that now she is bringing up taking care of her kids - yet she brags about having money and all these opportunities so leaving TKS shouldn't be a thing....

[Anonymous]

That rant from Danni is just..wow.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Prefacing this by saying I have been a regular poster, mostly just in the last month with Danni's disappearance. I don't love her, but I don't hate her. I just want the show to stop with the BS. I have posted a couple things commenting on how mean everyone is, which I wouldn't call "defending" but I just don't like reading hateful things.

That all being said, her long post she just did is... well, dead on. She doesn't owe any of you anything. The only owing is the Kane Show execs to tell us WTF is going on. She totally is "damned if she does, damned if she doesn't". Being an opinionated woman in ANY field comes with it's challenges.

Stop ripping everything she says and does apart because you don't know everything. I know she chooses to be public, but if people knew the same amount about YOU, what would they say?

She isn't perfect, she is kinda annoying sometimes, I don't really care if she comes back to the show or not, but back the hell off people... If you spew negativity, it will come back to you. You might think the same is true about her, which is fair, but just be nicer... like in general and in life...

This is how I feel, almost verbatim. She's a mom of two girls, the same ages as my two girls, so I can relate in a lot of ways to her. She's going through a lot with this crap at TKS, the divorce, probably still some effects of PPA/PPD, plus she is miles and miles away from her family and BFC. I don't really understand the "hate" people have for her. She's not everyone's cup of tea, but some people can be so vile in how they choose to express that. I post my opinion on here a LOT, but I refuse to participate in mudslinging. Also, can we leave personal info out of this? Like the people speculating about MJ and DC's names on the last thread. I know them, because I saw the FB post she made accidentally, but I refuse to post them here. Let's stay on track, continue to voice our opinions, but be civil about it. One thing that resonated with me in Danni's most recent long post is, she's got feelings too.

Just my 2 cents.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Prefacing this by saying I have been a regular poster, mostly just in the last month with Danni's disappearance. I don't love her, but I don't hate her. I just want the show to stop with the BS. I have posted a couple things commenting on how mean everyone is, which I wouldn't call "defending" but I just don't like reading hateful things.

That all being said, her long post she just did is... well, dead on. She doesn't owe any of you anything. The only owing is the Kane Show execs to tell us WTF is going on. She totally is "damned if she does, damned if she doesn't". Being an opinionated woman in ANY field comes with it's challenges.

Stop ripping everything she says and does apart because you don't know everything. I know she chooses to be public, but if people knew the same amount about YOU, what would they say?

She isn't perfect, she is kinda annoying sometimes, I don't really care if she comes back to the show or not, but back the hell off people... If you spew negativity, it will come back to you. You might think the same is true about her, which is fair, but just be nicer... like in general and in life...

This is how I feel, almost verbatim. She's a mom of two girls, the same ages as my two girls, so I can relate in a lot of ways to her. She's going through a lot with this crap at TKS, the divorce, probably still some effects of PPA/PPD, plus she is miles and miles away from her family and BFC. I don't really understand the "hate" people have for her. She's not everyone's cup of tea, but some people can be so vile in how they choose to express that. I post my opinion on here a LOT, but I refuse to participate in mudslinging. Also, can we leave personal info out of this? Like the people speculating about MJ and DC's names on the last thread. I know them, because I saw the FB post she made accidentally, but I refuse to post them here. Let's stay on track, continue to voice our opinions, but be civil about it. One thing that resonated with me in Danni's most recent long post is, she's got feelings too.

Just my 2 cents.

The problem is...that she feeds RIGHT into it. She does not have to respond to her "haters", she does not have to give explanations, she does not have to discuss anything. Yet she continues to do so and then complains about it. It's a vicious, self-serving cycle of narcissism. And don't even get me started on the whole "Oh yeah, and I have two girls to provide for." Soooo...she's basically saying that Slim barely provides for the family financially??

[Anonymous]

I don't know but I feel like she loves attention. Annoying loud mouth liberal. Yet goes against everything she claims to advocate for. That's why I say she's an attention whore. She says things for attention, but lives against these things.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Prefacing this by saying I have been a regular poster, mostly just in the last month with Danni's disappearance. I don't love her, but I don't hate her. I just want the show to stop with the BS. I have posted a couple things commenting on how mean everyone is, which I wouldn't call "defending" but I just don't like reading hateful things.

That all being said, her long post she just did is... well, dead on. She doesn't owe any of you anything. The only owing is the Kane Show execs to tell us WTF is going on. She totally is "damned if she does, damned if she doesn't". Being an opinionated woman in ANY field comes with it's challenges.

Stop ripping everything she says and does apart because you don't know everything. I know she chooses to be public, but if people knew the same amount about YOU, what would they say?

She isn't perfect, she is kinda annoying sometimes, I don't really care if she comes back to the show or not, but back the hell off people... If you spew negativity, it will come back to you. You might think the same is true about her, which is fair, but just be nicer... like in general and in life...

This is how I feel, almost verbatim. She's a mom of two girls, the same ages as my two girls, so I can relate in a lot of ways to her. She's going through a lot with this crap at TKS, the divorce, probably still some effects of PPA/PPD, plus she is miles and miles away from her family and BFC. I don't really understand the "hate" people have for her. She's not everyone's cup of tea, but some people can be so vile in how they choose to express that. I post my opinion on here a LOT, but I refuse to participate in mudslinging. Also, can we leave personal info out of this? Like the people speculating about MJ and DC's names on the last thread. I know them, because I saw the FB post she made accidentally, but I refuse to post them here. Let's stay on track, continue to voice our opinions, but be civil about it. One thing that resonated with me in Danni's most recent long post is, she's got feelings too.

Just my 2 cents.

The problem is...that she feeds RIGHT into it. She does not have to respond to her "haters", she does not have to give explanations, she does not have to discuss anything. Yet she continues to do so and then complains about it. It's a vicious, self-serving cycle of narcissism. And don't even get me started on the whole "Oh yeah, and I have two girls to provide for." Soooo...she's basically saying that Slim barely provides for the family financially??

So, you mean to tell me that if you had a group of people saying mean, hateful things about you on a daily basis, that you wouldn't get to a point that you felt you wanted to address them? If you address people who don't like you, that's narcissism?

And, WOW, that's a jump to think that her mentioning providing for her girls is throwing shade at Slim for not being a provider! Lol I think most people are in dual income families and if one of those incomes ends, then yeah, people start to think about or worry how they will continue to provide for their kids.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Prefacing this by saying I have been a regular poster, mostly just in the last month with Danni's disappearance. I don't love her, but I don't hate her. I just want the show to stop with the BS. I have posted a couple things commenting on how mean everyone is, which I wouldn't call "defending" but I just don't like reading hateful things.

That all being said, her long post she just did is... well, dead on. She doesn't owe any of you anything. The only owing is the Kane Show execs to tell us WTF is going on. She totally is "damned if she does, damned if she doesn't". Being an opinionated woman in ANY field comes with it's challenges.

Stop ripping everything she says and does apart because you don't know everything. I know she chooses to be public, but if people knew the same amount about YOU, what would they say?

She isn't perfect, she is kinda annoying sometimes, I don't really care if she comes back to the show or not, but back the hell off people... If you spew negativity, it will come back to you. You might think the same is true about her, which is fair, but just be nicer... like in general and in life...

This is how I feel, almost verbatim. She's a mom of two girls, the same ages as my two girls, so I can relate in a lot of ways to her. She's going through a lot with this crap at TKS, the divorce, probably still some effects of PPA/PPD, plus she is miles and miles away from her family and BFC. I don't really understand the "hate" people have for her. She's not everyone's cup of tea, but some people can be so vile in how they choose to express that. I post my opinion on here a LOT, but I refuse to participate in mudslinging. Also, can we leave personal info out of this? Like the people speculating about MJ and DC's names on the last thread. I know them, because I saw the FB post she made accidentally, but I refuse to post them here. Let's stay on track, continue to voice our opinions, but be civil about it. One thing that resonated with me in Danni's most recent long post is, she's got feelings too.

Just my 2 cents.

The problem is...that she feeds RIGHT into it. She does not have to respond to her "haters", she does not have to give explanations, she does not have to discuss anything. Yet she continues to do so and then complains about it. It's a vicious, self-serving cycle of narcissism. And don't even get me started on the whole "Oh yeah, and I have two girls to provide for." Soooo...she's basically saying that Slim barely provides for the family financially??

So, you mean to tell me that if you had a group of people saying mean, hateful things about you on a daily basis, that you wouldn't get to a point that you felt you wanted to address them? If you address people who don't like you, that's narcissism?

And, WOW, that's a jump to think that her mentioning providing for her girls is throwing shade at Slim for not being a provider! Lol I think most people are in dual income families and if one of those incomes ends, then yeah, people start to think about or worry how they will continue to provide for their kids.

I think if I was a public figure who had ALREADY been through the public ringer (bridezilla certainly didn't put her in a great light) should be used to anonymous or random idiots not being a fan.

I think some people here have been horrible and hateful but she's a public figure who launched her career by portraying herself as a heinous uncaring loud rude lady in Bridezillas. I get that it was acting but its not put on TLC as acting. I agree her kids should be out of it but she should have a pretty thick skin when it comes to random people who don't like her persona.

[Anonymous]

I guess my issue with all of this is, the 'hate' and people never being happy with what you do comes with the territory of being a celebrity and public figure (which is the life she has chosen to lead). Do you think Leonardo dicaprio or Angelina Jolie sit around thinking about negative comments on blogs? No, they don't give a shit. You can't put yourself out there to such an extent and not expect to get criticized.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Prefacing this by saying I have been a regular poster, mostly just in the last month with Danni's disappearance. I don't love her, but I don't hate her. I just want the show to stop with the BS. I have posted a couple things commenting on how mean everyone is, which I wouldn't call "defending" but I just don't like reading hateful things.

That all being said, her long post she just did is... well, dead on. She doesn't owe any of you anything. The only owing is the Kane Show execs to tell us WTF is going on. She totally is "damned if she does, damned if she doesn't". Being an opinionated woman in ANY field comes with it's challenges.

Stop ripping everything she says and does apart because you don't know everything. I know she chooses to be public, but if people knew the same amount about YOU, what would they say?

She isn't perfect, she is kinda annoying sometimes, I don't really care if she comes back to the show or not, but back the hell off people... If you spew negativity, it will come back to you. You might think the same is true about her, which is fair, but just be nicer... like in general and in life...

This is how I feel, almost verbatim. She's a mom of two girls, the same ages as my two girls, so I can relate in a lot of ways to her. She's going through a lot with this crap at TKS, the divorce, probably still some effects of PPA/PPD, plus she is miles and miles away from her family and BFC. I don't really understand the "hate" people have for her. She's not everyone's cup of tea, but some people can be so vile in how they choose to express that. I post my opinion on here a LOT, but I refuse to participate in mudslinging. Also, can we leave personal info out of this? Like the people speculating about MJ and DC's names on the last thread. I know them, because I saw the FB post she made accidentally, but I refuse to post them here. Let's stay on track, continue to voice our opinions, but be civil about it. One thing that resonated with me in Danni's most recent long post is, she's got feelings too.

Just my 2 cents.

The problem is...that she feeds RIGHT into it. She does not have to respond to her "haters", she does not have to give explanations, she does not have to discuss anything. Yet she continues to do so and then complains about it. It's a vicious, self-serving cycle of narcissism. And don't even get me started on the whole "Oh yeah, and I have two girls to provide for." Soooo...she's basically saying that Slim barely provides for the family financially??

So, you mean to tell me that if you had a group of people saying mean, hateful things about you on a daily basis, that you wouldn't get to a point that you felt you wanted to address them? If you address people who don't like you, that's narcissism?

And, WOW, that's a jump to think that her mentioning providing for her girls is throwing shade at Slim for not being a provider! Lol I think most people are in dual income families and if one of those incomes ends, then yeah, people start to think about or worry how they will continue to provide for their kids.

Yes, actually, that's EXACTLY what I'm saying. Not every criticism deserves a response. A mature, stable adult would know that. If she is truly that concerned about what complete strangers think/are saying about her on a daily basis then she has much bigger issues than just narcissism. You do realize that she has posted over 8 posts in the last 2 days responding to random criticisms from complete strangers, right? Why is she letting that have any bearing on her life? What adult in their right mind entertains such things and clearly lets it drive their actions?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I guess my issue with all of this is, the 'hate' and people never being happy with what you do comes with the territory of being a celebrity and public figure (which is the life she has chosen to lead). Do you think Leonardo dicaprio or Angelina Jolie sit around thinking about negative comments on blogs? No, they don't give a shit. You can't put yourself out there to such an extent and not expect to get criticized.

+1. Especially when you put so much out there. She's been open about her divorce and all this other stuff, if you don't want people talking about it you shouldn't put it half out there.

Like I GET why she can't (and shouldn't!) be talking badly or even at all about Slim because of her kiddos but you can't be surprised that people are curious when you have been SO open about it in the past. There's a reason Leo and AngJolie don't talk much about their private lives.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Prefacing this by saying I have been a regular poster, mostly just in the last month with Danni's disappearance. I don't love her, but I don't hate her. I just want the show to stop with the BS. I have posted a couple things commenting on how mean everyone is, which I wouldn't call "defending" but I just don't like reading hateful things.

That all being said, her long post she just did is... well, dead on. She doesn't owe any of you anything. The only owing is the Kane Show execs to tell us WTF is going on. She totally is "damned if she does, damned if she doesn't". Being an opinionated woman in ANY field comes with it's challenges.

Stop ripping everything she says and does apart because you don't know everything. I know she chooses to be public, but if people knew the same amount about YOU, what would they say?

She isn't perfect, she is kinda annoying sometimes, I don't really care if she comes back to the show or not, but back the hell off people... If you spew negativity, it will come back to you. You might think the same is true about her, which is fair, but just be nicer... like in general and in life...

This is how I feel, almost verbatim. She's a mom of two girls, the same ages as my two girls, so I can relate in a lot of ways to her. She's going through a lot with this crap at TKS, the divorce, probably still some effects of PPA/PPD, plus she is miles and miles away from her family and BFC. I don't really understand the "hate" people have for her. She's not everyone's cup of tea, but some people can be so vile in how they choose to express that. I post my opinion on here a LOT, but I refuse to participate in mudslinging. Also, can we leave personal info out of this? Like the people speculating about MJ and DC's names on the last thread. I know them, because I saw the FB post she made accidentally, but I refuse to post them here. Let's stay on track, continue to voice our opinions, but be civil about it. One thing that resonated with me in Danni's most recent long post is, she's got feelings too.

Just my 2 cents.

The problem is...that she feeds RIGHT into it. She does not have to respond to her "haters", she does not have to give explanations, she does not have to discuss anything. Yet she continues to do so and then complains about it. It's a vicious, self-serving cycle of narcissism. And don't even get me started on the whole "Oh yeah, and I have two girls to provide for." Soooo...she's basically saying that Slim barely provides for the family financially??

OP here... Again, sure she chose to be "famous" and should expect some hate, but what would you do if you were in her shoes? People spreading rumors and completely tearing apart your character? She is entitled to defend herself a little, even if she deserves the criticism. Would you just stay quiet? We all know she is not the type of girl to just stay quiet about anything.

And your last sentence is more unnecessary negativity... She is just saying that she has to work and provide for her family... How does that come back to her being negative towards Slim? She now has her own house, has to have her own nanny, her own car, everything, so when the girls are with just her, they have everything they need. What, would Slim be giving Danni money to provide for the girls when they are with her? Just stop. You sound like a bitter person that looks for the negativity in everything and everyone. I cannot imagine hating on someone so much or jumping to conclusions about someone that I don't personally know...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Prefacing this by saying I have been a regular poster, mostly just in the last month with Danni's disappearance. I don't love her, but I don't hate her. I just want the show to stop with the BS. I have posted a couple things commenting on how mean everyone is, which I wouldn't call "defending" but I just don't like reading hateful things.

That all being said, her long post she just did is... well, dead on. She doesn't owe any of you anything. The only owing is the Kane Show execs to tell us WTF is going on. She totally is "damned if she does, damned if she doesn't". Being an opinionated woman in ANY field comes with it's challenges.

Stop ripping everything she says and does apart because you don't know everything. I know she chooses to be public, but if people knew the same amount about YOU, what would they say?

She isn't perfect, she is kinda annoying sometimes, I don't really care if she comes back to the show or not, but back the hell off people... If you spew negativity, it will come back to you. You might think the same is true about her, which is fair, but just be nicer... like in general and in life...

This is how I feel, almost verbatim. She's a mom of two girls, the same ages as my two girls, so I can relate in a lot of ways to her. She's going through a lot with this crap at TKS, the divorce, probably still some effects of PPA/PPD, plus she is miles and miles away from her family and BFC. I don't really understand the "hate" people have for her. She's not everyone's cup of tea, but some people can be so vile in how they choose to express that. I post my opinion on here a LOT, but I refuse to participate in mudslinging. Also, can we leave personal info out of this? Like the people speculating about MJ and DC's names on the last thread. I know them, because I saw the FB post she made accidentally, but I refuse to post them here. Let's stay on track, continue to voice our opinions, but be civil about it. One thing that resonated with me in Danni's most recent long post is, she's got feelings too.

Just my 2 cents.

The problem is...that she feeds RIGHT into it. She does not have to respond to her "haters", she does not have to give explanations, she does not have to discuss anything. Yet she continues to do so and then complains about it. It's a vicious, self-serving cycle of narcissism. And don't even get me started on the whole "Oh yeah, and I have two girls to provide for." Soooo...she's basically saying that Slim barely provides for the family financially??

But see this is where the "damned if you do, damned if you don't" comes in to play. She says nothing for a week and look at how much speculation and ridiculousness happened just on here. Then she has people saying horrible things about her, sure she doesn't have to address it but at some point it does become so infuriating that you need some sort of catharsis. Also, I think you're really grasping at straws trying to infer that she's throwing shade at slim because she says she has to provide financially for two daughters. I'm not sure how familiar you are with the DMV area, but it is fucking expensive to live in this place. If you're lucky you can find a decent one bedroom apartment in an okay neighborhood for about a grand a month. Add on top of that property taxes, travel expenses, not to mention having to feed two growing children and buying them clothes every other week because they keep growing out of stuff. Even if Slim brings in a decent salary, one salary in this area is not enough to raise two children unless you're making 6 figures.

[Anonymous]

Danni check yourself for whiplash after writing that post

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Prefacing this by saying I have been a regular poster, mostly just in the last month with Danni's disappearance. I don't love her, but I don't hate her. I just want the show to stop with the BS. I have posted a couple things commenting on how mean everyone is, which I wouldn't call "defending" but I just don't like reading hateful things.

That all being said, her long post she just did is... well, dead on. She doesn't owe any of you anything. The only owing is the Kane Show execs to tell us WTF is going on. She totally is "damned if she does, damned if she doesn't". Being an opinionated woman in ANY field comes with it's challenges.

Stop ripping everything she says and does apart because you don't know everything. I know she chooses to be public, but if people knew the same amount about YOU, what would they say?

She isn't perfect, she is kinda annoying sometimes, I don't really care if she comes back to the show or not, but back the hell off people... If you spew negativity, it will come back to you. You might think the same is true about her, which is fair, but just be nicer... like in general and in life...

This is how I feel, almost verbatim. She's a mom of two girls, the same ages as my two girls, so I can relate in a lot of ways to her. She's going through a lot with this crap at TKS, the divorce, probably still some effects of PPA/PPD, plus she is miles and miles away from her family and BFC. I don't really understand the "hate" people have for her. She's not everyone's cup of tea, but some people can be so vile in how they choose to express that. I post my opinion on here a LOT, but I refuse to participate in mudslinging. Also, can we leave personal info out of this? Like the people speculating about MJ and DC's names on the last thread. I know them, because I saw the FB post she made accidentally, but I refuse to post them here. Let's stay on track, continue to voice our opinions, but be civil about it. One thing that resonated with me in Danni's most recent long post is, she's got feelings too.

Just my 2 cents.

The problem is...that she feeds RIGHT into it. She does not have to respond to her "haters", she does not have to give explanations, she does not have to discuss anything. Yet she continues to do so and then complains about it. It's a vicious, self-serving cycle of narcissism. And don't even get me started on the whole "Oh yeah, and I have two girls to provide for." Soooo...she's basically saying that Slim barely provides for the family financially??

OP here... Again, sure she chose to be "famous" and should expect some hate, but what would you do if you were in her shoes? People spreading rumors and completely tearing apart your character? She is entitled to defend herself a little, even if she deserves the criticism. Would you just stay quiet? We all know she is not the type of girl to just stay quiet about anything.

And your last sentence is more unnecessary negativity... She is just saying that she has to work and provide for her family... How does that come back to her being negative towards Slim? She now has her own house, has to have her own nanny, her own car, everything, so when the girls are with just her, they have everything they need. What, would Slim be giving Danni money to provide for the girls when they are with her? Just stop. You sound like a bitter person that looks for the negativity in everything and everyone. I cannot imagine hating on someone so much or jumping to conclusions about someone that I don't personally know...

I would go the Angelina Jolie route. If I had given the masses a good reason to criticize me (i.e. homewrecking), then I would NOT add fuel to the fire by continuing to speak on/respond to the topic knowing good and well that my responses would not change others' opinions. And it wouldn't bother me either way.

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Anonymous wrote:Prefacing this by saying I have been a regular poster, mostly just in the last month with Danni's disappearance. I don't love her, but I don't hate her. I just want the show to stop with the BS. I have posted a couple things commenting on how mean everyone is, which I wouldn't call "defending" but I just don't like reading hateful things.

That all being said, her long post she just did is... well, dead on. She doesn't owe any of you anything. The only owing is the Kane Show execs to tell us WTF is going on. She totally is "damned if she does, damned if she doesn't". Being an opinionated woman in ANY field comes with it's challenges.

Stop ripping everything she says and does apart because you don't know everything. I know she chooses to be public, but if people knew the same amount about YOU, what would they say?

She isn't perfect, she is kinda annoying sometimes, I don't really care if she comes back to the show or not, but back the hell off people... If you spew negativity, it will come back to you. You might think the same is true about her, which is fair, but just be nicer... like in general and in life...

This is how I feel, almost verbatim. She's a mom of two girls, the same ages as my two girls, so I can relate in a lot of ways to her. She's going through a lot with this crap at TKS, the divorce, probably still some effects of PPA/PPD, plus she is miles and miles away from her family and BFC. I don't really understand the "hate" people have for her. She's not everyone's cup of tea, but some people can be so vile in how they choose to express that. I post my opinion on here a LOT, but I refuse to participate in mudslinging. Also, can we leave personal info out of this? Like the people speculating about MJ and DC's names on the last thread. I know them, because I saw the FB post she made accidentally, but I refuse to post them here. Let's stay on track, continue to voice our opinions, but be civil about it. One thing that resonated with me in Danni's most recent long post is, she's got feelings too.

Just my 2 cents.

The problem is...that she feeds RIGHT into it. She does not have to respond to her "haters", she does not have to give explanations, she does not have to discuss anything. Yet she continues to do so and then complains about it. It's a vicious, self-serving cycle of narcissism. And don't even get me started on the whole "Oh yeah, and I have two girls to provide for." Soooo...she's basically saying that Slim barely provides for the family financially??

But see this is where the "damned if you do, damned if you don't" comes in to play. She says nothing for a week and look at how much speculation and ridiculousness happened just on here. Then she has people saying horrible things about her, sure she doesn't have to address it but at some point it does become so infuriating that you need some sort of catharsis. Also, I think you're really grasping at straws trying to infer that she's throwing shade at slim because she says she has to provide financially for two daughters. I'm not sure how familiar you are with the DMV area, but it is fucking expensive to live in this place. If you're lucky you can find a decent one bedroom apartment in an okay neighborhood for about a grand a month. Add on top of that property taxes, travel expenses, not to mention having to feed two growing children and buying them clothes every other week because they keep growing out of stuff. Even if Slim brings in a decent salary, one salary in this area is not enough to raise two children unless you're making 6 figures.

+10000 (I'm the OP of the "just my 2 cents" post above and I completely agree with you on all points! My husband and I live in the DMV and are in the "six figure club", but if one of us lost our jobs, I would definitely be worrying about providing for our kids! It is fucking expensive to live here!)