My boyfriend came over to my place last night and fixed my dishwasher.
He saved me probably $250. After he did this, I asked him what I could give him as "payment" I was ready to treat him in anyway he wanted, ANYTHING. His response was, no thanks. |
At least he's handy. |
Maybe he wanted you to have a functioning dishwasher AND self respect? |
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Have you ever been intimate with him before? |
So you view sex as a commodity you can trade for payment? Do you have a whore mentally? |
I stopped fixing things for women after I found they were more likely to "friend-zone" me when I fixed things. I still help out my buddies. |
Do you have an active sex life? If so, his comment was the equivalent of "it's my pleasure" and he was just being gracious.
Now, if he's turning down sex in general then that's another issue. |
I would have gotten out the cuffs and paddle. Because we all know it was her fault the dishwasher broke. |
WTF is wrong with the OP showing gratitude to her boyfriend by wanting to have sex or slobbering on his knob?
Maybe boyfreind was sore from working on the washer, or hands were dirty, or needed to get some rest since he had to be up early the next morning. |
I would say this guy's a keeper. Handy, and respects women and doesn't see sex as transactional. You, OP, need to evolve. |
It's her boyfriend. How is offering up the goods contradict with any principle of self-respect? |
What? It's her boyfriend, not the handyman. |
How sad that so many women are brainwashed to think it's a normal, healthy impulse to want to pay with sexual favors. I wish I could shake sense into some of you. It's like the way we're brainwashed to placate abusive men. That impulse is not healthy. You just think it's normal. |