Have you ever got back together with an old lover, ex-AP or former spouse?
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Anonymous
| How did it happen? Do you regret it? |
Anonymous
| Yes- I had called off our engagement and canceled our April wedding in December. We got back together, eloped, and have been happily married for 12 years. |
Anonymous
| I have with. He stopped seeing me and then regretted his decision. I was broken hearted until I took him back. I realized I couldn't trust him anymore. How could he love me and hurt me like that? When he said things like he loved me and he would never hurt me it actually made me feel worse. It didn't take long for me to realize I couldn't handle it and didn't want him anymore. |
Anonymous
| I didn't but my neighbors divorced for almost three years then got remarried. Apparently they decided they were better together than apart. They have teenagers so the kids were elementary school age when this went down. |
Anonymous
| Yes and it was a bad decision. She is clearly incapable of being a decent person. I pity her husband. |
Anonymous
| I have thought about it. Going back to AP would be both the best and worst decision. |
Anonymous
Same |
Anonymous
| I've divorced and reconnected with an ex boyfriend. Not in a relationship but there is an easy peace in our friendship and connection that is great to have in my case. No old issues. So far it's only good. |
Anonymous
You pity her DH? Was she an AP? If so, how can you even stand your hypocrisy? |
Anonymous
| Yes - I've hooked up with old APs - its good and fun and comforting being with an old friend but there is always the reason why it didn't work that makes it not as great as it once was. Sometimes our memories are a lot sweeter than reality. |
Anonymous
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Brother, at age 65 married the girlfriend he had when he was 19. They were divorced, he for decades. He "found" her by working at it - -systematically tracked-down many of his old girlfriends to see who was available. I don't think they believe in "soul mates", etc, blah-blah-blah, but they get along well, love each other and are glad they reunited.
Also, a relative divorced her husband due to his affair. He married the other woman, regretted it, and came back to wife #1 after a year or two. She took him back and they have remained married and seem happy - this is decades later. I have tremendous respect for her and her family that they have been able to move on and do not hold it over his head. Of course their kids were thrilled to have Mom & Dad back together. |
Anonymous
| No I haven't |