My 17yo son asked me how to steal a girl from her boyfriend
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Anonymous
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Very cute girl. Her boyfriend is a year older, away at a college that's over six hours away from D.C. (If you want me to be honest, she's only dating the other boy because he's rich. Not a good looking kid.) She's headed to a different college, which will put them in different states, still several hours apart. So, the relationship obviously isn't going to last past this summer.
Should I encourage my son or tell him to find another girl? |
Anonymous
| You don't know that relationship won't last. Tell your son to be a man and find an unattached girl to date |
Anonymous
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Please be a troll. I'd hate to think there are such unethical moms out there advising theirs sons to do stupid mean crap.
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Anonymous
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A girl is not an object to be stolen from her boyfriend, who is not her owner.
Please do not encourage your son to think of women as property. |
Anonymous
| You'd encourage your son to date a girl that is only dating her current boyfriend because he's rich? Since morals and decency seem not to be an issue here, tell him to just bang her and let her keep the rich out of town boyfriend. Win win. |
Anonymous
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Cmon, it's a HS, long distance relationship. It's not like they are married or engaged.
It's a great chance for some life lessons for your son. Tell him he needs to get to know her a little better and figure out if he just likes the challenge that she's taken, if he just likes her looks or if there is more to it. If he decides she is, just be around, be flirty and maybe occasionally, in a flirty/teasing fashion, mention it's a shame she has a boyfriend. If she's interested, she won't have a boyfriend soon enough and she'll let your son know. Their break up does him no good if she has no interest in him. |
Anonymous
+1 |
Anonymous
| How do you know why she is dating the other boy? Would your attitude be different if she was not "very cute?" Are YOU in high school? |
Anonymous
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Even if it's a high school long distance relationship, it's still a relationship that should be respected.
Your son can let the girl that if she's ever single, he would be interested. Conveying interest (once) is okay but actively pursuing someone in relationship is not. |
Anonymous
+1 |
Anonymous
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Really odd that you rare so fixated on looks- cute girl, and you assume she's with her BF solely because of money because he is "not a good looking kid". No wonder your son sees females as objects to steal away.
Tell your son to move on. No good will come of encouraging him to pursue girls who aren't interested. It's really creepy. |
Anonymous
| OP - you are a loser as a mother. |
Anonymous
| Was your son not taught basic morals? Why would he want to be with a girl who would leave her current boyfriend for another guy? Tell him to move on. |
Anonymous
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Man here. My first GF was summer of senior year. Her boyfriend left for school out of state and I moved right in. She and I knew we were going to schools far distant from each other, so the summer was going to be it. All it really took was proximity. I was with her every day, and I made my move.
Real question is why inna hell is he asking his MOM for advice on this? Where is dad? Tell the boy, from me, that he should NEVER NEVER NEVER listen to female advice about women. Even from mom! With the best of intentions, mom will give you the worst possible advice. |
Anonymous
LOL you gotta be kidding. This girl is not married or even engaged. If he gets into her pants, that is a WIN. He's not going to be with her more than a few months anyway. Good experience for him. |